Use Me: Explorations in Surrender, Desire and Power

By Rebecca Lang

You don't want careful sex.
You want to be used.

Held down. Spoken to like you belong to someone. Taken with force and intent. Marked. Filled. Reduced for a while to a mouth, a body, a surface someone else gets to claim.

*Use Me* is the blunt, practical guide for people who crave roughness, direction, and objectification - and want to ask for it without apology.

This book shows you how to:

- Name the desire to be used without shame
- Ask for spanking, hair-pulling, choking, impact, and degradation with precision
- Drop into the headspace of being available and stay there
- Take fullness, fluids, and being finished on or in
- Stay safe inside the intensity
- Handle the drop, the aftercare, and the shame that can show up later
- Build a dynamic where the full request is livable for both people

No soft language. No moral panic.
Just clear tools for the kind of sex where you stop performing and start being taken.

If you've been hungry to be used and tired of editing the request down to something milder, this is the book that tells you to open your mouth and say it.

Use me.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: B0HK79GPQV
• ISBN13: 9798175070096
• Release Date: September 2026
• Publisher: Independently Published
• Length: 194 Pages
• Weight: 0.59 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.4" x 6.0" x 9.0"