Side by Side: The Revolutionary Mother-Daughter Program for Conflict-Free Communication

by Charles Sophy and Brown Kogen

Book Overview

In Side by Side Dr. Charles Sophy introduces a revolutionary program tohelp mothers and daughters learn to navigate and resolve even their mostvolatile conflicts, taking their relationship to a new... This description may be from another edition of this product.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: 0061847682
• Release Date: February 2011
• Publisher: HarperOne
• Length: 243 Pages
• Weight: 0.45 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.6" x 5.4" x 8.0"

Customer Reviews

Side by Side

I purchased and read this book and then forwarded to a family member who could defintiely be enlightened by this book. The family member stated that this book is outstanding. Also, commented that the physician who wrote the book knows what he is talking about.

cannot wait to implement the chair strategy...

As someone all too familiar with one-on-one therapy, I wasn't sure that there would be much left for me to learn. I was wrong! Now I am determined to facilitate the chair strategy with my tween. I feel confident that I am armed with the knowledge of how to navigate what is already appearing to be a very tough road ahead. Charles Sophy and Brown Kogen have taken what is intuitive and placed it in a form that any mom can easily understand and implement.

mother of all parenting books

I might be a bit biased as I've been a patient of Dr. Sophy's for about 5 years now and what a crazy five years it's been. I first started seeing him right after I got divorced and my daughters were 9 and 11. My ex-husband did not want to be a part of our family nor was he willing to be parent anymore which made things even worse. I suddenly found myself a single parent after nearly 15 years of marriage without a job, without a penny, all we had was our house and each other. In the middle of all this major change a mental health issue which had been at bay for years suddenly became an issue and things were not good. When Dr. Sophy came into my life and then my daughter's lives he was able to to help me and my daughters transition and be able to accept things and keep on going. As time went on and things got better for us other problems set in but nothing out of the ordinary, my daughters were now teenagers and like all teenagers we started to fight ALOT! But once again Dr. Sophy was there for me, for us to see us through. When he first told me about his book I thought great now that my girls are almost ready to go off to college now there is a book for me that would help, but when I started reading it, it was like Dr. Sophy was right there. So many of the things he brings up in this book are the things that we talked about, worked on, worked through our sessions together and to see so much of it all in once place is kind of amazing. It's like if you can't be treated by Dr. Sophy this book is the next best thing. I would say even with all the work we've done together over the years, I learned a lot from reading it and would suggest and mother pick up a copy and add it to your mom toolbox. For someone who isn't the biggest reader in the world, the fact that I read it cover to cover says a lot. Dr. Sophy really knows what he's talking about and he really cares. Thank You Doctor Sophy for sharing your gifts with every mother out there, you are really special.

must read for all

Side by Side is an excellent resource and no matter who you are you will be able to take away a lot of fantastic ideas and information that Dr. Sophy offers in the book. As a mother, grandmother, and educator for more than 30 years I 've had a lot of experience with mother-daughter relationships and what I really found great about this book besides being written in a way which was engaging and thought provoking, was that unlike many of the other books out there, Side by Side is something that can be read just to get a better understanding of your relationship with your daughter or for a specific problem you might experiencing. I'd suggest any mother keep a copy of Side by Side on her bookshelf as it's one of those books you'll keep coming back too over and over again.

Great balance between clinical and practical

Side by Side is a comfortable read and achieves an admirable balance between clinical and practical. The clinical includes up-front work to get yourself somewhat in order before tackling your relationship with your daughter (first 1/3 of the book) and a simple yet helpful visual in the chair strategy (second 1/3 of the book and genesis of its title). The practical includes hot-button issues of sex, money and divorce (third 1/3 of the book), and exercises and terrific stories sprinkled throughout. The stories range from patients to strangers in airports, and bring Dr. Sophy's messages home in oftentimes touching ways. In reading this book you're simultaneously entertained and educated.