Searching For Love In All The Wrong Places

By Tonja Alexander

Book Synopsis
Searching for Love in All the Wrong Places is a powerful and transparent journey of brokenness, healing, forgiveness, and redemption. In this deeply personal memoir and Christian devotional, Pastor Tonja Alexander shares how father wounds, emotional abandonment, and childhood trauma shaped her search for love, acceptance, and identity in unhealthy relationships.
Through honest storytelling, she reveals how years of searching for affection and approval led to heartbreak, poor choices, and emotional pain-until she encountered the unconditional love of her Heavenly Father.
With biblical wisdom, personal reflections, Scripture studies, prayers, and practical applications at the end of every chapter, this book helps readers understand the lasting impact fathers have on their daughters, especially during the foundational years of birth through age twelve. It also offers hope to fathers who desire to rebuild broken relationships and create a legacy of love, protection, and purpose.
More than a memoir, Searching for Love in All the Wrong Places is an invitation to every woman carrying father wounds, every daughter searching for her worth, and every father longing to make a difference.
If you've ever questioned your value, searched for acceptance in the wrong places, or wondered what true love really looks like, this book will lead you to the One who is Love.
Discover how God's unconditional love can heal the little girl within, break generational cycles, restore families, and transform broken hearts into powerful testimonies of His grace.
Stop searching for love in all the wrong places... and discover the Perfect Father's love that has been pursuing you all along.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: B0H86GBSC6
• ISBN13: 9798996287529
• Release Date: July 2026
• Publisher: ACT Publishing
• Length: 164 Pages
• Weight: 0.45 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.4" x 6.0" x 9.0"