Where I Stopped

by Martha Ramsey

Book Overview

The first memoir to address the issue of adolescent rape, Where I Stopped is also a chilling protrait of a troubled American family, whose awkward silence and repression after the trauma contributed... This description may be from another edition of this product.

• Format: Hardcover
• Language: English
• ISBN: 0399141073
• ISBN13: 9780399141072
• Release Date: January 1996
• Publisher: Putnam Adult
• Length: 325 Pages
• Weight: 1.30 lbs.
• Dimensions: 1.2" x 6.3" x 8.3"
• Age Range: 18 years and up
• Grade Range: Grade 12 and higher

Customer Reviews

examination of a life-changing event

excellent personal recounting of a traumatic event that totally reshaped this young woman's life. Perceptive and sensitive.

Well written and poignant

This is an excellent memoir. It is insightful and truly examines life after rape.

REMARKABLE, HONEST AND BEAUTIFUL

Martha Ramsey's account of her rape at the age of thirteen is a remarkably honest and beautifully written memoir of a very bright child caught up in an incomprehensible crime at the tender age when she was just becoming aware of her own body and sexuality. Her adolescent self-consciousness about the sexual nature of the crime, and her parents' and siblings' reactions to the rape, and the perceived lack of support she received from them, were something she had to reconcile later in life, when she began to suspect that she may never have adequately coped with what had happened to her. This is her story of returning to her past, and trying to understand how being raped at the age of thirteen by a stranger in the woods, may have shaped some of the decisions she made, both in her academic life and in her personal life.

Not just about rape, but its impact and imprint on Ramsey

I slept through my alarm after staying up all night reading this book in one sitting. Thank you, Martha Ramsey! Your story extends far beyond the physicality of rape and brings readers to the fresh, poetic voice that is yourself recounting your relationship with your family and others. Your shock value poem at 14 is not written by a precocious girl smugly knowing her teacher and classmates will know it's seering but instead by a girl who doesn't really know she's saying "listen." I did. Next stop: Blood Stories.

This book is a life-line.

Martha Ramsey has written an enormously comforting book that does not pretend that the darkness of rape does not exist -- even years after the fact -- but shows the way to finding some peace again. By telling of her own personal battle, not recommending a "strategy" of self-help to others, the story of her survival and search for happiness resonates with truth and hope. She tells of rape and its aftermath honestly and poignantly. This book helped me know that it is possible to take the first steps on a long road to peace. Thank you so much, Martha, for your bravery! You gave me hope again.