The Single Woman-Married Man Syndrome

By Richard Tuch

Many single woman-married man relationships are characterized by such recognizable, even stereotypic, interactions and run such a predictable course as to constitute a genuine syndrome. Documenting the existence of this syndrome with case histories from inside and outside clinical practice, Dr. Tuch gives serious consideration to the complex dynamics involved and offers a framework to help patients struggling with their involvement in such affairs. A broader discussion of relations between men and women evolves and addresses such issues as men's dread of women; women's unique inclinations to employ masochistic adaptations in their relations with men; married couples' varied styles of dealing with their differences; the relationship of power and control to the processes of domination, submission, and the act of surrendering; and the development of the capacity to fall and remain in love.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: 0765702444
• ISBN13: 9780765702449
• Release Date: July 2000
• Publisher: Jason Aronson
• Length: 310 Pages
• Weight: 2.85 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.8" x 6.0" x 9.0"

Customer Reviews

A compelling masterpiece

A tour de force which demonstrates remarkable originality and insight. I agree with the New York Times' outstanding review of this monograph which breaks new ground in our understanding of a difficult problem. Well written and thought provoking.

Captures the nature of the dilemma extremely well

Tuch is very insightful in his observations about this syndrome. Having been involved in this kind of relationship myself in the past, I can say that his description of how these relationships progress is VERY familiar. This book will provide well-needed understanding by all involved parties. This understanding is crucial in order to get unentangled from this kind of relationship...or transform the unhealthy agendas/perspectives that often permeate the relationship and give the relationship a chance to either end or work out!