The Sex We're Not Having

By LIV Ryder

The Sex We're Not Having is an intimate, unfiltered exploration of what happens to love when desire goes quiet but the questions get louder. This book dives into the conversations couples avoid: unmet needs, emotional distance, resentment masked as routine, and the silent negotiations happening in bedrooms where intimacy has faded. It's not just about sex-it's about connection, power, vulnerability, rejection, healing, and the stories we tell ourselves to survive the lack of touch. Through raw reflections, relatable scenarios, and honest emotional truths, The Sex We're Not Having examines why intimacy disappears, how partners cope differently, and what it costs to stay silent. It challenges readers to confront whether they're settling, waiting, avoiding, or afraid to ask for more-and why wanting more doesn't make you selfish. This is a book for anyone who has ever loved deeply but felt undesired, stayed loyal while feeling lonely, or wondered if emotional intimacy can survive without physical connection. It doesn't promise easy answers, but it does offer clarity, validation, and the courage to finally talk about the sex you're not having.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: B0GL4RPH4L
• ISBN13: 9798261118756
• Release Date: February 2026
• Publisher: Blurb
• Length: 178 Pages
• Weight: 0.72 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.5" x 6.0" x 9.0"