The Man with the Beautiful Voice: And More Stories from the Other Side of the Couch

by Lillian B. Rubin

Book Overview

In her long career as a psychotherapist, acclaimed author Lillian Rubin occasionally encountered patients who demanded a very special, even unorthodox, therapeutic approach. For the first time, Dr.... This description may be from another edition of this product.

• Format: Hardcover
• Language: English
• ISBN: 0807029262
• ISBN13: 9780807029268
• Release Date: June 2003
• Publisher: Beacon Press (MA)
• Length: 162 Pages
• Weight: 0.80 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.8" x 5.8" x 8.8"

Customer Reviews

Hope for Therapy

Dr. Rubin is an encouraging antidote to the old-school stony-faced therapist who answers your questions with questions. Here's an account that will both satisfy your innermost voyeur and humanize the helping professionals who see us at our most human. These are stories about people overcoming suffering and shame and Rubin depicts this with tremendous respect and heart. I appreciate the dignity she imparted to these souls who were at their worst at the time she encountered them. It gives me hope for a profession that is plagued with discredits, scandals and just plain low success rates. That hope lies in the fact that every person is different, therefore the therapist's approach -guided ideally by the therapist's own compassion and intuition- must also be different.

Candid & Insightful - A Must Read for Therapists

The Man with the Beautiful Voice is a beautifully written book. Each case study is written in a colorful narrative style. The stories are educational and fasinating. Each story ends with an interestig twist almost as if a spy thriller. Dr. Rubin wrote with such candor and openness I felt like she gave therapists her personal permission to be human. Excellent book!

Seeing the Whole Picture

This book gives you an inside view of the therapist-patient relationship from the therapist point of view. It's enlightening to read how the relationship develops and how that impacts the patient's life. You can get a little bit of a feel for how therapy works and what happens. The book does a nice job of juxtaposing the 'rules' of how things are to be done and 'intuition' about how things should be done and the struggle between the two. My favorite chapter was the final one where the author shared her personal experience in therapy and what that relationship meant to her and did for her. A good read for a therapist or a client in therapy.

The book with the beautiful voice

Wonderfully real and inspirational reflections of therapeutic sessions with a therapist who seems to have the healing combination of genuineness, authenticity, self- and other-awareness, and the innate desire to really hear and see her clients. The words harmoniously sing from the pages of this book with the chorus repeatedly reminding us that in therapy it is indeed the relationship that heals.

Five Stars

Dr. Rubin explains that there are a set of rules regarding the relationship between a patient and doctor and how she sometimes broke the rules to help her patients. She shows the soul-searching and thought processes that go into the decision to break the rules by describing interactions with some of her patients. She does a great job of describing these cases, building the tension for the reader who is wondering why the patient has come in for therapy; there is always a big payoff when the secret trauma suffered by each patient is revealed. This is a very short book and I found myself wishing it was longer. I could easily read 400 pages + of these gripping stories. The human drama never ceases to be interesting and the author has a talent for writing in simple yet artistic prose.