Survival Strategies for Parenting Your Add Child: Dealing with Obsessions, Compulsions...

by George T. Lynn

Children with ADD can have severe and very challenging behavioral problems. Research has shown that some children are "born" difficult to parent. These kids may be unmanageable, have no friends, be... This description may be from another edition of this product.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: 1887424199
• ISBN13: 9781887424196
• Release Date: September 1996
• Publisher: Underwood Books
• Length: 240 Pages
• Weight: 0.90 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.9" x 5.5" x 8.4"

Customer Reviews

Parents, you can do it!

This is a wonderful book that can literally change the lives of despairing parents of children with attention problems. It doesn't just present coping strategies, it addresses the heart of the problems by exploring two main questions: how can parents move from seeing their child as an terrible trial to seeing him/her as a challenge that can be met? And how do they move from seeing only the child's behavior to understanding what's going on inside? After these two central underlying issues are addressed, parents can move on to strategies to help their child learn new behaviors, such as identifying when stresses are building, practicing relaxation and focusing techniques, and finding satisfying activities. The book also helps parents understand the strains on their marriage and their other children, and find ways to regain some peace and pleasure. I came away from this book feeling more equipped to be an appropriate teacher for my child, helping her to identify and meet her own needs, rather than another adult voice telling her to "behave properly." The book could use a little editing, but the ideas and strategies can help any parent move from feeling helpless and desperate to feeling capable of supporting, loving, and helping their child.

A Gentle Hand Reaching Out

After coming to your site today to order yet ANOTHER copy of this book, it dawned on me that I need to write a review also! I probably should just order a CASE of them next time as I am continually recommending this book to others. When you receive a diagnosis that your child has one or more of the "differences" that George Lynn writes about, it can be so frightening and you often feel hopeless and very much alone. This book is like a gentle hand reaching out to you in the darkness. He not only gives you the important clinical information you may need to move forward, but more than that, when you come to the end of the book you feel affirmed, encouraged, empowered and with the deep belief that "yes, my child may have these issues, but just look at his wonderful gifts as well!" In my work as a pastoral counselor I time and time again find mysaelf sharing this book with weary and often very frightened parents. I too know this feeling of despair as I am the mother of one of these wonderful, wild children! Thank you George Lynn for reaching out your hand to me and to my son through this healing book. You have saved our lives, and I am eternally grateful.

The most sensible book on RAGE that I've read.

My son, who is 13, was diagnosed with ADD, ODD, OCD, and depression about 4 years ago. As a result, I've collected a library of books on each subject. This is the first book that not only mentions all of the above, but actually shows how they are related, and how to effectively deal with the everyday problems of these disorders. This is the first book that I've read that deals with the grief that parents feel. Books like this one will make it easier for the next parent who finds himself at a loss to explain his childs behavior.

Truly the best book on the topic

This is absolutely the very best book available on working with children who are living on the edge. So many other books (including mine) talk about how to see and work with children with learning disabilities and AD/HD, but very, very few deal with what to do with and about those children who are either neurologically impaired or so damaged by the pain of growing up "a hunter in a farmer's world" that they're lashing back or out of control. George's book is all about that. Brilliant. You will find this book incredibly useful!

A book for parents who are at their 'whits end'.

"Survival Strategies for Parenting Your ADD child: Dealing with Obsessions, Compulsions, Depression, Explosive Behavior & Rage" by George T. Lynn, M.A., C.M.H.C. George Lynn is a Certified Mental Health Counselor in Bellevue, Washington, and parent of a child with Tourette Syndrome and ADD. Don't let the title fool you; this book isn't exclusive to severe ADD. If you're a parent of a child with Tourette Syndrome or Bipolar Mood Disorder, you've come to the right place. Are you looking for strategies for dealing with a myriad of behaviors like obsessions, compulsions, and explosive behavior? Welcome home. In "Survival Strategies" you'll find information to help you unravel the complexities of how these children feel and think, including numerous tips, diagrams and charts to help you get out of the loop and into the problem-solving mode. Though Mr. Lynn is a counselor, you won't find "disorder" or "pathological" expertise. Lynn gives the reader solid reasons for celebrating the precious gifts these children have, while strengthening and empowering the family. Children with these attention different diagnoses are not easy to live with, and he doesn't view them as "problem" kids, but uniquely different. George Lynn takes you into their world to see the "why" of their behavior, instead of medicating the answer away. As a result, he uses attention difference (A.D.), instead of "disorder," defines common stressors, skips over medication and leads us to practical problem-solving techniques. Astonishing in his depth and compassion, Lynn, married with a pre-teen child diagnosed with ADHD and Tourettes, shares his family's experiences openly and honestly. In seventeen chapters divided into three parts, the introduction acquaints us with a mother who describes all people as being plants in a garden, each with different needs. In accordance, Lynn chooses the word "Eustress" as his premise. Eustress, a word coined by stress researcher Dr. Has Selye, means "good" in Latin. In other words, we can lie down, curl up our toes and let stress overcome us, or we can look squarely at our children, count their strengths and resources, and meet the challenge head-on in a positive way (Eustress). Part I, Understand the Nature of the Challenge, shows how your child views his world and the resulting pressures, describes how you can help him and shares ways you can help yourself in order to help him. Part II, Strategies for Successful Management of Individual Problems, relates methods that help children manage their own attention differences. Among the behaviors Lynn covers are oppositionality, emotional wildness, dangerous behavior and obsessions. Part III, Strategies for Changing Family Distress Cycles to Family Eustress Cycles, discusses family patterns and how to change them. He has chapters on grief, single parenting and blended families. Chapter fifteen, one o