Practicing Radical Honesty: How to Complete the Past, Live in the Present, and Build a Future with a Little Help from Your Friends

by Brad Blanton

Book Overview

Blunt, shocking and sometimes profane, this exciting book blasts self-help and feel-good remedies to expose the lies with which we imprison ourselves. It talks straight, hard and true to the heart of the human condition, pulling no punches. It gives us simple yet revolutionary tools to break out of our minds and into a direct and immediate perception of exactly where we are - then shows us how we can together create a world that works for everyone...

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: 0963092197
• ISBN13: 9780963092199
• Release Date: June 2004
• Publisher: Radical Honesty, Sparrowhawk
• Length: 358 Pages
• Weight: 1.10 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.8" x 6.1" x 8.9"

Customer Reviews

Life Changing.

One needs to read Radical Honesty first - this work follows from that. These insecure times are a good time to read this. It will help you understand to be truly free you must jettison the western BS you've been fed.

Take A Dive

Have you read Brad Blanton's first book, Radical Honesty?If you have not, get it today. We can cut through endless layers of complication and turgid self preoccupation with ourselves and our past simply by learning to feel what is, and to tell it like it is. Brad has made telling the truth into a spiritual discipline, a short cut to God. I have done little more than dicking around in the shallow end of the pool with what he offers, but it was enough to get wet, and its refreshing. It will probably take the rest of my life to get to the deep end. Radical Honesty, if we live it full on, is a way of life, a complete spiritual journey.If you have read his first book, then you will love this very practical follow up. Here are nitty gritty devilish little tricks to crack through our shell of pretence, and then to squeeze our love through the crack. This book goes way beyond the first, and offers a vision of getting honest with yourself, with your life and purpose and mission. Jump up on the board, and plunge in. It sure beats shivering on the side, waiting to live...

Honesty Begets Intimacy

What I have learned from reading Brad Blanton's Radical Honesty books is that we all lie - a lot - to create and maintain an image of who we want people to think we really are. The problems come when we discover that living within that false image - both personally and professionally - is very stressful and disconnecting. While telling the truth may cause some very big scenes in the beginning, it is a quick path to a powerful place of personal freedom. I also read "Radical Honesty", which I think is the best place (other than a workshop) to learn about the basics of the high costs we pay of the "little white (and big black) lie." "Practicing Radical Honesty" coaches us through much the same information with practical suggestions on how to ease into a life of actively open transparency that is Radical Honesty. Both are inspiring books and will give readers a lot of compelling reasons to begin telling the truth with everyone with whom we would like to have a close and authentic relationship.

Practicing Radical Honesty - and Beyond

I read Practicing Radical Honesty after first reading Brad Blanton's popular "Radical Honesty". I expected it to be more of the same. Well, I should have known better. Brad connects with the previous book and then takes off beyond individuality, through community, even beyond our current existence. I found his style strightforward and clear. The content covered the "Great Work" - as told by Gurdjieff, Erhard and many others. I love his straightforward approach in explaining the synthesis of these formerly hidden ideas for every day use. I have no doubt that if you put Brad's ideas into practice,using his "Workbook for Life Design" chapter in the book, you will be clearer about your life's purpose and meaning.

Truely radical - this book helped me change my BEING.. ;-)

When Radical Honesty was first recommended to me, I was quite surprised, because I had always thought of myself as an exceptionally honest person. While I was not a 'liar' - deliberately telling people what I knew was not the truth - I had never considered that witholding my thoughts and feelings was actually lying. Brad Blanton, the author, clearly shows how witholding our thoughts and feelings, is a form of lying, which is very destructive to our mental, physical and emotional well-being. The book explains how lying or withholding our true thoughts and feelings is bred into us as moralists, the idea that we should be and act and say things as society expects us to. We may never 'be' who we think we ought or should be, and so we lie (pretend) about it. Lying and withholding our thoughts and feelings from those we are close to, denies us the ability to BE who we really are, and so we run around in a whirlwind of always trying to be who we think we should be, which cuts us off from the 'nectar' of just 'being'.Many people misunderstand the concept of 'radical honesty' thinking that if you are radically honest, then that means you just go around telling people what you think of them. Radical Honesty is NOT about simply going around sharing your judgements and assessments of other people. Radical Honesty is about sharing your thoughts, feelings and actions with others, and being committed to working through with the other person, until the anger or pain has gone away. Radical Honesty is about taking responsibility for your feelings, your actions and your thoughts, and taking charge of your life as an intentional creation based on your preferences, rather than as a victim, blaming others for your pain, hurt feelings and reactive way of living life. In the end the book is about freedom, about learning to be who you really are and really want to be, not who you think the world, your mother, husband, lover, etc. thinks you 'SHOULD' be. When we show all of who we are - the good, the bad, the nasty - and we can get over it, and people can learn to see us as fallible human beings, and we can relate to one another as human beings, without the expectation that people should be other than who they are, then we have a foundation where true initmacy, compassion and creativity blooms like flowers in the desert after rain.Sometimes Radical Honesty is about anger. We all get angry, and we can all get over it. We can experience the anger and transcend it. It is when we suppress the anger, that it grows into a cancerous hatred inside us, that eats us up alive. I think we would all prefer to deal with someone's anger than become the object of their hatred.The book helped me to realize how much of my life had been lived trying to be who I thought I should be. I had been living in my mind, instead of my heart, my thinking based on my expectations of what I thought were other's expectations of me, and who I should be. The ideas in B