Nice Guys And Players: Becoming the Man Women Want

By Rom Wills

Book Overview

Are you a nice guy constantly passed over by women? Are you a player who can get every woman except the one you love? THIS BOOK IS FOR YOU!!! * The secret to attracting women. * How women categorize... This description may be from another edition of this product.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: 0965568237
• ISBN13: 9780965568234
• Release Date: September 2000
• Publisher: ERL Publishing
• Length: 122 Pages
• Weight: 0.66 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.4" x 5.5" x 8.5"

Customer Reviews

Very thorough and interesting read . . . ..

I'm an author of my own relationships-related book, "Mode One: Let The Women Know What You're REALLY Thinking," and I actually use one or two quotes from Rom Wills' book in my own book. "Nice Guys and Players: Becoming The Man Women Want" breaks down the strengths and weaknesses of both the typical "nice guy," and the popular "player" types. One of my favorite quotes from this book is, "Women want that feeling of excitement when they deal with a man. Too many men often play it safe because it seems more responsible and they think that's what women want. Women want both responsibility AND excitement." This is SO TRUE. One more quote I love, that is also SO TRUE, is when Wills says, "Sex is really the main difference between a 'nice guy' and a 'player.' The most consistent statement by women about the 'nice guys' is that they are not good in bed. If they were good in bed, they wouldn't be nice guys. They would be called Mr. Right." In my experience, "player" types are not always more handsome than nice guys, or have more money or better jobs than nice guys, but if there are one or two qualities "players" have that most "nice guys" don't is that 1) "players" are typically way more SELF-CONFIDENT than the average "nice guy" types; 2) "players" know how to arouse & seduce women far more effectively than "nice guy" types. I would recommend this book to any single, heterosexual male.

I NEEDED THIS

I always knew I was a 'nice guy', and my relationships have always ended with the woman I love saying...'I love you, but I don't want to BE with you anymore...but we can be best friends.' I've not even finished this book yet, but seeing in print what I've know deep down all along has already given me the strength to take control of my life back from these women. It hit me like a lightning bolt. I'm a kind person at heart, and always felt like I would be 'playing games' if I didn't just do what came naturally. What I realize now is, being true to what I want, and being assertive is not a game. It's empowering, and I feel better about myself already. I will always be kind, but I'll never allow myself to be taken advantage of again!

Subconscious Transformation

Many people miss the point of a book like Nice Guys and Players because they are looking for cheap tricks or rather an easy way to meet women. The reality is that if someone wasn't attracting women to begin with, a few lines is not going to change their luck in a few weeks. For a person to change they must change habits and conditionings ingrained in their subconscious. I give Nice Guys and Players 5 stars because the information contained will produce a subconscious change in an individual. For example, many men want methods to develop the trait of confidence. Rom Wills in one of his chapters advises men to start businesses. Being responsible for a business and being able to succeed is a sure way to increase confidence and competence which are traits which attract women like moths. Rom also talks about physical fitness. The health and visual benefits of physical fitness are obvious, however, the subconscious benefits are even more important. For example, if a man develops himself where he can bench press three hundred pounds this represents a subconscious confidence builder. This confidence can be transferred to other areas of life. I highly recommend this book for men who want a real change in their lives. I also recommend Rom's follow-up book, Sexual Chemistry: Nice Guys and Players Level II. Sexual Chemistry is deeper and even more esoteric but it's a must read for men serious about transforming their lives.

Great book for dealing with reality

I really enjoyed this book because unlike similar books this one is based on reality. Rom points out the real deal in the interactions between men and women. The reality is that women do indeed place men into select and non-select categories. The reality is that most men are in the non-select category regardless of what they think. I find it interesting that the negative reviews of "Nice Guys" seem to focus on picking up women and seduction. Nowhere in the description of the book or even in the book are these terms mentioned. Only those with a juvenile mentality would focus on seduction. The reviewer from South Africa said it best when he said it was about the image one presents to the world. Still another reviewer said it best when he basically said that tricks are for kids. The reality is that women are choose men who are winners in life. This book will turn a man into a winner.

Changed my Life

I bought this book from the author back in September. I have to say it changed my life. Before reading this book my dating life was hit and miss with more of an emphasis on miss. I always heard that old line,"You're such a Nice Guy but..." All that changed after I bought Rom's book. He told me, "This book will change your life." So I read it and the after following Rom's advice...WOW! In a few short months I went from a man who barely got the time of day to having very beautiful women ask me out! I've read other books on how to pick up women but the difference with Nice Guys and Players is that I found out how to draw women to me. No pick-up lines. No hypnosis. I don't have to be a jerk. With a few changes I became a babe magnet. I e-mailed Rom Wills a couple of weeks ago to tell him about the changes. He said the following: "You're just at the beginning young apprentice. Follow my words to the letter and you get to point where you can attract women no matter what you are wearing, without spending money, and without saying a word. You must, however, follow my words to the letter. " I thought, "Wow, I can do even better!" I recommend this book to all men. Rom takes the luck out of the dating game and replaces it with science.Anthony