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A read copy, but remains in excellent condition.
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A read copy, but remains in excellent condition.
How lucky I was to learn of this book when my second child was a newborn. I've read many good books and articles about sibling relationships, but this is far and away the most practical and insightful guide I have found. Using examples from real families, Ms. Samalin illustrates typical conflicts that arise between siblings and parents. What really sets this book apart from others is that she goes on to suggest, in very specific language, alternate ways to approach these conflicts to defuse them peacefully. Reading this book was like talking to a friend who understands -- and who happens to be an expert in conflict resolution. I now give it to friends as a baby shower gift when they are adding siblings to their families.
I strongly recommend reading this book for the first time when you are pregnant with your second child. Then, keep it handy and refer to it often as your children grow. Nancy Samalin offers both insight in understanding and practical advise about handling sibling relationships.
Siblings are the toughest issue. As one of three and the parent of three, I have considerable experience. But this book helped me see the issues with my kids in a clearer light and permitted me to exhale. A must read!
As parenting "manuals" go, this book is really a breed apart. It offers a realistic and upbeat attitude, and it's easy and quick to read. Using other parents' anecdotes as well as her own, Samalin provides a level-headed, big-picture perspective that is often humorous and always comforting. Even if you're just expecting your second child, this book is useful because it opens with chapters on preparing older siblings for the arrival of a new baby. Wish I'd read this one a few years ago. Highly recommended!
My husband and I have found this book to be our "bible" when it comes with dealing with our two children. Ms. Samalin gives concise, clear and often entertaining examples of real parents. It is the most helpful book I've read since "Siblings Without Rivalry" which was over a decade ago! "Loving Each One Best" is an absolute must read. I can't recommend it enough!
