Keeping Katherine: A Mother's Journey to Acceptance

by Susan Zimmermann

Book Overview

Katherine was a beautiful, perfect baby for the first year of her life. Then, without warning, she changed forever. She started crossing her eyes. She cried at night for hours at a time and could not... This description may be from another edition of this product.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: 1400052017
• ISBN13: 9781400052011
• Release Date: December 2004
• Publisher: Harmony/Rodale
• Length: 240 Pages
• Weight: 0.60 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.5" x 5.2" x 8.1"

Customer Reviews

the truth about Rett

This book was exactly what I've been looking for. Rett is not common in my area so no one knows what it's like. I needed something from a parent's perspective that was brutally honest, and this is it. Susan is truly a hero, and did the world a favor by writing the truth in her book.

The Challenge of Love

If you don't love, you aren't challenged. This book presents a journey of love and loss and acceptance. The most difficult thing a parent can experience is losing a "normal" child to a disease or condition and then parenting the "new" child. One can never forget the child whom was lost, despite the love and devotion to the disabled child. As a mother of a disabled child for 29 years (whom we suspected had Rett Syndrome but didn't), this book gave me another voice in the wilderness. Margaret Marshall Rhyne, Remembering Alexis, Finding Perspective in Love and Loss

A fine balance

I just finished reading your touching account of your journey with Katherine. I found your book while in search of "models" for a book I've been invited to help publish. Your book is the perfect starting place for me to help. You balance love and loss, the emotional and the practical, the personal and the public, so eloquently. You made me love Kat and I haven't even met her. You mirrored my thoughts about terminating a life because you may learn of a probably handicap. I've always thought that these children bring a special message. True, I live in my own glass bubble ... I didn't have to face the hardships of raising such a child year after year. Both my boys are healthy young men now, but I did have a short-lived scare with the oldest. He spent the first week of his life in NICU. In only that short time, I experience a wide range of emotions ... including not being able to name my baby because he might not live ... then realized I HAD to name him because he might not live. I'm glad you shared that part of you that our society wants us to hide. The "not nice" thoughts and contemplations. It only makes sense to me that you wouldn't be able to include Katherine on all of your life experiences and why shouldn't you take some time to refresh and renew so you would be able to give more to your beloved child. It was ever clear to me that although you had trouble accepting her condition, you loved/love her very much. You struck a fine balance.

Honest Words

I always scan the newest titles in the special needs section when I visit bookstores. My son, like Zimmermann's daughter, is profoundly disabled. I look for books that connect me to the author's experiences. It helps me to feel less alone. I really scored with this one. Keeping Katherine is a wise book, exceptionally well-written and honest. Although I didn't go through the extended period of repressed grieving that the author did, I understand it. Among most of us with non-verbal, profoundly affected children, there is the ongoing experience of mourning. It rises and falls, and it doesn't take away the beauty we see in our sons and daughters, nor does it negate the powerful love we feel for them. In the book, she writes, "To cope with Kat, I have sought out those people like Rita and Linda Orona, who loved Katherine as she was and took comfort from her. Those who held her close and looked directly in her eyes. Those who felt no embarrassment, but understood the peace of her presence." Those words spoke to me. The book is a wonderful read for parents of children with disabilities, as well as anyone interested in the power of love. Carolyn Murray danielsgift.com