If You Had to Choose, What Would You Do?

by Sandra McLeod Humphrey

Is is wrong to sneak into the movies if your big brother says it's okay? If everybody is cheating on the math test, shouldn't you, too? What if telling the truth gets your best friend in trouble? It's never too early for us to begin talking to our children about values and helping them define and clarify their code of moral conduct. This is a great way for them to build self-confidence in their ability to work through everyday problems! The 25 situations...

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: 157392010X
• ISBN13: 9781573920100
• Release Date: October 1995
• Publisher: Prometheus Books
• Length: 115 Pages
• Weight: 0.55 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.3" x 8.5" x 8.5"
• Age Range: 7 to 10 years
• Grade Range: Grades 2 to 5

Customer Reviews

A thought-provoking book for kids

In If You Had To Choose What Would You Do, the author realistically captures the social/moral dilemmas that children face in their everyday lives. After each story, the author provides thought-provoking questions to help generate discussions in the classroom or at home. What I particularly like about this book is that it gives kids the opportunity to really think about what they would do in a particular situation if they were in the characters' shoes.

Highly Recommended for Teachers, Parents, or Grandparents - American Author's Association Review

This book, the first in the series, is the kind of book that I sought out when raising my young children. Humphrey, a licensed psychologist, does not preach values to children. Instead, she uses her years of experience to introduce twenty-five scenarios followed by a series of questions. These questions, ideal for teachers leading classroom discussions or for parents engaged in daily readings with their children, do not explicitly state a right course of action, but allow children to explore and fine-tune their own moral compass. The effect is the development of a child's own sense of fairness and what makes actions inherently right or wrong. I highly recommend this book, and the others in the series, for any teacher, parent, or grandparent interested in pursuing lively discussions regarding ethics and behavior with children. Karl L. Kruger for the American Author's Association

Excellent for all ages

We have children ranging from 6-11 who all love this book. It has become part of our dinner ritual to choose a story and take turns responding to the ethical challenges.

Kids and parents will love this book

This book is such a wonderful way to open up dialogue with yourchildren. They love to tell you what they would do and you get theopportunity to share your values at the same time. I really think this is a wonderful way to talk to your kids about peer pressure and right and wrong so they are prepared to make good decisions when the challenges actually arrive. I highly recommend this book to all parents.

A great book to help teach children decision making.

I really enjoyed this book. There is no right, nor wrong answer. The situations that the child needs to made a decision about, are real life, and believable. I have reccomended this book to all of my teacher friends. Thank you Ms. Humphrey