Trauma can be a crash. It can also be a divorce, a breakup, a death, the loss of a job, or any life event that splits your identity into before and after.
In I Am Not Done Yet, Dr. Timothy Carpenter shares a heartfelt roadmap for rebuilding after personal trauma. Drawing from his own life-changing experience, he offers a steady, practical guide for the part nobody prepares you for: the quiet middle after everything changes.
This book helps you rebuild with tools that work on real days, including:
how to stop the mental spiral and give your mind a clear instruction
how to create "containers" for grief and anger so they don't hijack your day
how to shut down the nighttime replay loop and protect sleep
how to build momentum with a Minimum Viable Day and a "never miss twice" rule
how to recover from setbacks without shame
how to pace a changed body without giving up your life
how to ask for support without surrendering your dignity
how to rebuild connection, meaning, and usefulness in sustainable doses
how to create a weekly blueprint so you stop starting over every morning
No performance. No pretending.
Just a map, a rhythm, and a return.