Balkan grit. Russian soul. Colombian heart.
Imagine learning to live life a certain way for more than thirty years, only to realize you had it wrong all along.
Hardened by the winters of Moscow and a guarded youth, the author relied on logic, efficiency, and keeping her distance, believing that survival was strictly a solo mission. But when life brought her to the vibrant, unpredictable heat of Barranquilla, Colombia, that protective armor finally began to crack.
How Colombia Ruined Me is a candid, witty memoir about moving from a defensive "survival mode" into a life of genuine peace. Traveling across three continents, it explores what happens when you finally stop trying to control every outcome and learn to lean into the unexpected.
It is a story about retiring the shield, choosing your true tribe, and discovering that a new beginning often starts exactly where you least expect it.