She was the one who got away ...Even now, five years later, as a member of Cataclysm, the rising star of the alt-rock world, I still think about her.Compare all women to her.So when she gets pulled up on stage at a concert, I know I can't let her get away.But she drops a bomb that turns my life upside down-I'm a dad.I have a four year old daughter.Now I'm forced to face the demons of my pastand come back home.Because I'm determined to get to...