Don't Be Afraid to Ask?: How to Date a Beautiful Woman

by Bob Lott

Book Overview

A beautiful woman glances at you, then looks away and doesn't notice you for the rest of the night. What did you do wrong? I'm about to tell you... and we'll fix it so it doesn't happen again. She... This description may be from another edition of this product.

• Format: Mass Market Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: 0966363507
• ISBN13: 9780966363500
• Release Date: March 2001
• Publisher: Doveco Publications
• Length: 54 Pages
• Weight: 0.35 lbs.

Customer Reviews

Fear Not The Dating Scene

Conquering fears and self-doubts goes a long way in the world of dating. Here, Bob Lott tries to guide and direct you toward your goal. But Bob can only do so much. Ultimately, you have get up and get out there on your own. Bob reassures you that you can do it. Mr.Lott's advice is down to earth and practical not to mention easy to understand and apply. So, read the book, believe in yourself and get out there and make an impression. You only have your loneliness to lose.

This Book Is On The Cutting Edge

This book has great advice for the average man who wants to settle down with the beautiful woman of his dreams. This book is short and to the point with no marketing fluff or filler. Every man who wants a beautiful woman in their life should read this book.

An Intriguing, Motivational Work

Interested in a relationship? Do you want to make a connection? Are you afraid to ask? This work by Lott pinpoints a basic barrier that holds keeps people apart. That barrier, according to Lott, is fear which deters us. This book provides motivation to overcoming fear. The author provides basic techniques to guide a person to and through the dating process. This is an intriguing work indeed!

Excellent Power Tool for Getting Ms. Right and Avoiding Ms. Wrong

This book really just tells it like it is. I think that good men will agree with most of what he says. Bob Lott is really explaining how any decent man can have a really beautiful woman in his life, but it will take work and discipline. His first step is to really cast out fear of approaching beautiful women by making you understand that your beliefs that you will fail are not based in reality. He makes it clear that women are creatures with intricate needs, and one of these needs is to associate with classy male companions. However, beautiful women have to protect themselves from the jerks that routinely approach them, and they need time to warm up. Furthermore, you must use the tool of indirection to get past her defenses, to make her feel safe, to let her know that you're different, and to let her imagine more than what is there. The central thesis of his book is to never worry about how a woman feels about you. You, as a male suitor, need only worry about how she feels about herself. Bob Lott explains that love, romance, and intimacy go hand in hand with each other. He adequately explains that many beautiful women HATE alcohol and that ALL beautiful women LOATHE problem drinkers. And he directs you to stay away from bar women, very wisely. If you are a man of class, dignity, and integrity, then those traits literally repel barflies. And the jealousy that beautiful women have to deal with from divas at nightclubs really hurts. Good men and beautiful women are not to be found in bars. And beautiful women know this. The other crucial point Bob Lott makes is that the death of a relationship with a really beautiful woman is predictability. This does not mean instability, but rather always taking initiative to do new, fun, interesting things, and never being lazy. Keeping her around means constantly romancing her- taking a risk on her. It is through this selflessness that we come to love each other. Creating an affectionate, loving environment communicates to a woman that you think that she is not just OK, but rare and special. Intimacy exists only when we can deal with each other from an I'm OK- You're OK point of reference. But when you get lazy and cease to create a loving and affectionate environment, she will no longer want to be with you. The mistake that most men make is that they believe, incorrectly, that being a woman's friend and being a woman's lover are mutually exclusive. It's just not so. Almost all women, especially the most beautiful (and also the loneliest of all), want to be closely attached to a lover who is their best friend and companion in life. It is precisely this kind of relationship that transforms us into better people, and helps us to get the most out of life. And Bob Lott so wisely encourages you to focus on one woman at a time. He's right. Aim for the whole flock and you'll kill no birds, but aim for one and you'll hit it. Men who are constantly bedhopping are using sex as a narcotic. Their lives are empty and h

Every Beautiful Woman Wants A Good Man!!

If you want a beautiful woman in your life. You must show that your a good man that can be trusted. You could be the biggest snake on the face of this earth. Thanks to this book, you can be transformed into the love of her life. Love and hate is on a very thin line. You are only a heart beat away into becoming everything in a man thats she is looking for. Allow this book to make that happen for you.