If you see a divorce in your near future or are now paying alimony, You Need to Read This Book ...It is recommended you quickly learn about pre-divorce strategies and what can happen to you. If you are the larger wage earner, this needs to be done before you file for divorce or are served with the papers, as the impact upon your $$ assets and future quality of life can be enormous.Unfortunately the advice you get from friends is well-intended, but is pretty poor, and most of it is incorrect. Surprisingly you will learn you can't depend upon either the lawyers or the mediators to be pro-active and steer you on a straight course, even though they are supposed to represent your best interest. If this change in life is coming at you, you need to prepare yourself - quickly!Unfortunately divorce does not bring closure to a bad situation. Divorce is supposed to create a needed "end point", but for a court-ordered alimony payer it keeps an unhealthy open reminder that there is no closure. The real sadness is that a divorce is both traumatic and expensive to go through. Reality sets in when after a "long term" marriage (10 years or more), you are told by the courts that you will be paying for 2 households from your 1 household income for the rest of your life - permanent alimony. It is now your responsibility to maintain the non-working or lesser income ex-spouse in the same marital lifestyle to which they were accustomed. With permanent alimony, you get a first-hand look at the reality of our antiquated divorce state law system. The cost to you can be enormous.So here is a "how-to-do" on proactively walking yourself thru your divorce and afterwards, with preparation for moving on with your life. Please read it, and you will not weep.
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