Imagine a little girl who never asked to be born into a world ruled by gangs, violence, drugs, and prison. But from the moment she entered it, she became another casualty of choices she never made.
Growing up with her mother, father, stepfather, three older brothers, and younger brother, this vulnerable girl learned that family loyalty came with a price. The streets knew her name long before most people did, not because of who she was, but because of who her brothers were. Their gang ties made her a target. From middle school through her early high school years, she was beaten, bullied, and hunted by classmates who sought revenge for battles she had nothing to do with. Every school day became a fight to make it home alive.
While the adults around her struggled with crime, incarceration, and survival, she searched for something that seemed impossible: a chance at a different life. Childhood disappeared beneath fear, chaos, and heartbreak. At just seventeen years old, she became a mother, forced to grow up while carrying wounds no teenager should have to bear.
Before I Had A Choice is an unflinching memoir of survival from the front lines of generational struggles. It is the story of a girl born into a life she never chose and the young woman she became who determined that it would not be the life that defined her.
Raw, heartbreaking, and ultimately inspiring, this true story is proof that where you begin does not have to determine where you end. Even in the darkest neighborhoods, where hope is often the first thing lost, the strength to break the cycle can still be found.
A STORY OF RESILIENCE
A JOURNEY OF PURPOSE
A LEGACY OF STRENGTH