You Can't Be Hurt & Happy. Pick a Struggle!: Stop Chasing the Hurt. Start Choosing What Happens Next.
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How many times are you going to complain about the same thing before you decide to do something different?
The relationship that keeps hurting you.
The friendship that drains you.
The family member who has unlimited access to your peace.
The job you hate but haven't prepared to leave.
The dream you keep talking about but are too afraid to start.
The boundary you keep announcing but never enforce.
At some point, Love, we have to stop talking about everybody else and ask a harder question:
What are YOU going to do?
In You Can't Be Hurt & Happy. Pick a Struggle , Donniseca West delivers the kind of truth that may get on your nerves before it changes your life.
This is not another motivational book telling you to smile through your pain, pretend the hurt didn't happen, or blame yourself for what somebody else did.
They were responsible for what they did.
You are responsible for what you do next.
Through candid personal stories, humor, faith, hard-earned wisdom, and the straight-with-love accountability that defines SHe Is ME(TM), Donniseca challenges women to examine the patterns affecting every room of their lives-from romantic relationships, friendships and family to motherhood, career, money, purpose, faith, boundaries and the relationship they have with themselves.
You'll confront questions like:
What have your actions taught people about how to treat you?Are you processing your pain-or rehearsing it?Are you setting boundaries, or simply announcing consequences you never enforce?Are you in love with someone's reality-or their potential?What if everybody else isn't always the problem?Are you really waiting on God-or are you afraid to move?And what would actually happen if you finally got up?Donniseca doesn't ask you to deny your hurt.
She asks you to stop giving it executive authority over your life.
Because healing isn't pretending it didn't happen. Boundaries aren't punishment. Forgiveness doesn't automatically restore access. Accountability isn't blame. And becoming the woman God created you to be doesn't require inventing a new woman.
It requires remembering the one who was there all along.
So bring your highlighter.
Bring your sense of humor.
Bring your excuses too.
We'll deal with those when you get here.
Because you didn't pick up this book just to become more educated about your unhappiness.
You came here to decide what happens next.
You can't be Hurt & Happy.
Pick a Struggle.
Class dismissed.
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