Women and the Common Life: Love, Marriage, and Feminism

by Christopher Lasch

Book Overview

This study looks at the role of women and the family in Western society, examining the impact on them of politics and economics, with special emphasis on the lives of children. Questioning the accepted status quo of patriarchy, this book explores women's experience from ancient Greece to modern America.

• Format: Hardcover
• Language: English
• ISBN: 0393040186
• ISBN13: 9780393040180
• Release Date: January 1997
• Publisher: W. W. Norton & Company
• Length: 196 Pages
• Weight: 0.92 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.9" x 5.8" x 8.5"

Customer Reviews

Grand Analysis (but what else would you expect).

Christopher Lasch was a magnificent cultural commentator who I, and many others far brighter than me, refer to as the American Orwell. He had a scholars eye for inconsistency and a serious regard for the truth--so much so that it continually put him at odds with the political left of which he was a part. Frankly, I saw a couple of the reviews below and laughed out loud as this work is not something one would expect your average feminist to have ever heard of let alone view as a threat to their hegemony. It's too sober and erudite for them to even process so I'm surprised that any members of the womyn's studies crowd found their way to this link in the first place. Women and the Common Life is a posthumous collection of essays which were mostly previously published in places like New Republic, Commonweal, and The New York Review of Books. If the reader is even remotely familiar with these publications, he or she will know that they would not be the places in which scathing assaults on feminism can be found. Part history, part philosophy, and part literary review, Women and the Common Life fixes Lasch's high-brow upon marriage, attraction, and the economic relations between the sexes; although, my favorite chapter was the only one in which he came close to giving out a thrashing, and that was in his dissection of professor, and political operator, Carol Gilligan. Her absurd book, In a Different Voice, unwittingly demeaned women under the pretense of saying that they could not think in the same manner as men because they think differently. Lash skillfully, and subtlety refutes the prevailing nonsense of our day, and it is unfortunate that so few will be exposed to this final work.

Feminism: repressive, elitist, historically inaccurate

Sorry feminism failed, and Lasch tells some of the reasons why. Feminism, which was supposed to be critical of "patriarchical" values, merely turns out that women want to be men, and when given men's power, just act like men. Carly Fiorina, the CEO of HP is a good example. She fought the male heirs of HP for control over HP, and a proxy fight for a merger with Compaq. And the result? Another pointless corporate merger, massive layoffs in a family oriented company, falling stock prices, and Ms. Fiorina walking out with MILLIONS for basically being a failure. The culture, like HP, would have been way better off to stay with it's "patriarchical" values, then the feminism of Carly Fiorina and her ilk. The previous women who posted didn't read the book, nor do they even understand what Lasch was talking about. Mere men-haters, like that don't offer much to other women, or our society.

"Women's Issues" as Crucible for Cultural Critique

Lasch chronically falls victim to those who fail to grasp the radical nature of his critique. He approached social issues from a perspective which quickly eludes the typical intellectual constraints of right and left. WOMEN AND THE COMMON LIFE may well become the largest victim to the casual reads to which his work is so often submitted.Despite all the talk about the dynamic nature of the patriarchy and renaissance drama, the main gripe of WOMEN is that feminism sold its soul for a mess of pottage. Primarily through comparison of Friedan's FEMININE MYSTIQUE and Goodman's GROWING UP ABSURD, Lasch reveals that feminism was uniquely poised to furnish a broad assault on the predatory capitalism, cheap consumerism and therapeutic stupor that has descended over the American scene. Instead, feminists all too frequently seek only to alter the rules so women too can gain entry into the careerist trap. One senses that Lasch may have invested intellectually in feminism, hoping it would be the crucible for a revivified Jeffersonian agrarianism, but was subsequently let down. Perhaps because of this, feminism suffers the same excoriation as most other stripes of liberalism throughout Lasch's work. In any event, he has feminists dead to rights when he points out that a truly feminist, truly radical critique of American civilization would have sought to undermine, for the good of women, men and children, the gluttonous and heedless consumerism which so characterizes it. Far from missing the critical insights of feminism, Lasch eloquently argues that it is the feminists, particularly Friedan, who have forgotten their own insights, content to sacrifice their integrity on the altar of materialist fixation. In this tome, Lasch's reputation for erudition remains secure, and even tumesces in the ingenuity of its application through critical intelligence, and, notably, in a subtlety of argument not always present in previous work.This book is crucial reading to those who find themselves inexorably compelled by feminist ideals, but who find it impossible to discover those ideals inhabiting any portion of the contemporary feminist landscape.