Where Have All the Smart Women Gone?

By Alice Ann Rowe

Inside every woman is a smart woman with special abilities. But do women show or even know this part of themselves? Do women sometimes find themselves 'dumbing down, ' pretending to not be as competent as they know they are? Why do women tend to downplay their dreams? What happens in our culture to create these and numerous other situations where women do not live the life they feel they can because of what others might 'think' or 'do' or 'believe' in response?Author Alice Rowe, with a doctorate in human development, presents Where Have All the Smart Women Gone? offering an honest, clear place to explore these painful questions and to provide inspiration for women to let their light shine: to celebrate their gifts and talents, not to hide them.As an educator, speaker and trainer, Alice Rowe, Ph.D., based her book on her extensive study of American women. The themes explored in these women's lives overlap with most women. Conversational in tone, one hears the voices of real women describe various themes such as: Smart women often find themselves trapped in a Double Bind. As they strive to achieve professional success and recognition, they still feel societal pressure to assume more conventional roles.Smart women feel as though they must do everything, and do it well. They are expected to handle everything, and there is no room to ask for help.These themes and many more offer inspiring models of achievement and tell of triumphs in the midst of conflicting expectations...hitting at the heart of life for many women.Dr. Rowe portrays vivid real-life experiences within the framework of her research. She includes excerpts from leading researchers And probing, stimulatingquestions at the end of each chapter inviting sincere reflection and discovery. This format creates a very accessible book, revealing a clear portrait of the dilemmas and challenges facing 21st century women.Although ideal for personal journeying, these materials have been widely used as a course text in women's study classes, a resource in Women's Centers, for study and interaction at women's organizations and in church groups across the country. This material gets to the issues and helps women discover answers for themselves and their own lives. Valuable resources, including other books, organizations and websites create opportunities for women to continue their exploration.With a mission to help women not only understand, but more fully realize themselves, Where Have All the Smart Women Gone? is an enlightening portrayal of smart women in our culture.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: 0970308906
• ISBN13: 9780970308900
• Release Date: March 2001
• Publisher: Smart People Books
• Length: 82 Pages
• Weight: 0.30 lbs.
• Dimensions: 7.0" x 0.3" x 7.0"

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Where Have All The Smart Women Gone?

In her 2001 release "Where Have All the Smart Women Gone?", local author Alice Rowe keenly explores the lives of 24 professional women to discover what influenced their career choices. Each of these women, characterized by others as "gifted" from an early age, seemingly had the world at her feet. Yet, quite often, they chose career paths that, by their own admission, did not maximize their potential. With a doctorate degree in human development, Rowe seeks answers to uncover the influences that often inhibit women from following their dreams. She begins this fascinating journey of discovery with a look at historical and cultural views of women, many of which are disconcerting, such as this quote from Martin Luther (1483-1546): "No dress or garment is less becoming to a woman than a show of intelligence." In a fascinating analogy of a fictitious country called Double Bind, Rowe suggests that our culture is not as equal or modern as we would like. Based on her conversations with the women depicted in her book, Rowe reveals that women are often encouraged to take the easy, safe path or the one most expected by our teachers and our families. In addition, women frequently "dumb down" so as not to intimidate others. Diana, one of the women studied, said, "Since fifth grade, I made sure I wasn't too good, too noticeable." With telling quotes, insightful discussions, and historical and educational research, Rowe presents an unattractive vision of our so-called modernized society. She reveals blatant examples of the sexism that has remained in our culture for centuries and which appears to run rampant in our families and schools. Throughout the book, Rowe shares colorful, personal stories of her subjects to illustrate their struggles to succeed in spite of various negative influences. In a poignant display of compassion and understanding, Rowe reveals her theories in the women's own words, letting each tell her own story in collections of related quotes and snippets. After exploring the downside to our sexist culture, Rowe presents encouragement to her readers in the second half of the book using another fictitious country called Celebration. Here she highlights her subjects' achievements and touts their personal growth, primarily with anecdotes and quotes from the women themselves. Drawing on her both her experience and her belief in the strength and intelligence of women, Rowe paints an encouraging picture of how women can persevere in the face of adversity and negative cultural influences. She references the works of other authors, like Emily Hancock's "The Girl Within" and Barbara Clark's "Growing Up Gifted", to support her theories. While the predominant audience for Rowe's book is women, it has garnered male readers as well, providing them with insight into the ever changing world of women. With Rowe's conversational, matter-of-fact style, she opens a welcoming window to men who want to know more about the struggles of their mothers, th

For personal self-improvement reading lists

In Where Have All The Smart Women Gone?, Alice Rowe draws upon her many years as an educator, speaker, and trainer to explore how women are often caught up in a kind of double bind, they strive to achieve professional success and recognition, while feeling societal pressure to assume more conventional and unassuming roles. Smart women are expected by both themselves and others to do everything and do it well with no allowance to ask for help. For just such women, Rowe offers valuable resources, advice and commentary when showcasing thirty-four examples of successful smart women in order to encourage all women to celebrate their innate intelligence and abilities with strength, determination, and inspiration. Where Have All The Smart Women Gone? is a very highly recommended contribution to women's studies small group discussions and personal self-improvement reading lists.

To all of us that Thought NOT Having a High IQ held US Back!

When I read this book I thought, WOW, I knew how frustrating it was as a child trying to achieve in a world of smart people when I thought I wasn't. I had a learning disablity (dyslexia) that held me back in my first years of school. BUT, I overcame it because I was being ENCOURAGED to do so. BUT....these women in this book were made to feel that being smart was a Disability! Imagine, knowing that you know, wanting to share what you know, KNOWING that the sky is the limit in what you can learn and understand. Your good at this! and you want to share it with others. but someone is telling you to repress it. Now that is frustrating! All women should read this. It will help us understand our Mothers our Sisters and Ourselves.

An eye-opener for all women, especially the over-acheiver!

I really enjoyed Alice's book. I had the opportunity to meet her personally and her energy and enthusiasm for her subject leaps off the page. For my sisters out there, if you have ever felt the classic struggle between making others happy and making yourself happy, this book can help you to put the focus on yourself without feeling the guilt. the discussion format at the end of each chapter makes it ideal for group discussion or personal introspection. Worth the time and the money, Alice has NAILED the struggles of intellectual women in America!

Life-changing information. Uplifing.

Does this sound familiar? University of Virginia in the 1960s only allowed women on the main campus if they were in nursing. All other majors attended a small women's college in Fredericksburg and became teachers or were doing their first two years of course work in preparation for transferring to the nursing school. There were no other options. If this sounds like what you went through, you will find encouragement and hope in Where Have All the Smart Women Gone? You're not alone!!!!!!!!!!