The Language of Tears The Silent Witness It is fair to say the tear saw me long before I noticed its slow travel down my mother's dying cheek. In that fine line between life and death, a single, written tear carries volumes of the unspoken rolling, gathering, and yielding into a wash of relief. It landed wet upon the hospital linen beneath my mother's head, long before my absent mind could make sense of the words, the answers, the sentences, the grammar of life-the grammar of death, the prime colors that I sensed now lay scattered in the fibers of the sheets. Unspoken, I soon found myself asking that single tear: Are you falling because my mother was not ready to leave her husband of 60 years (and us), or was that final tear of hers an expression of joy, springing to her eye when she recognized the loved ones long gone, now reaching for her hand as she moved along an unencumbered footpath into their dimension of peace? The Power of Tears Tears define us. They brush our path and, like a green garden hose, wash the debris from our driveways and into the street gutters. A good flood of tears organizes our sadness, our fear, our loss, and disappointment so that we might draw strength and summon courage to dare the fates one day at a time. The Dual Nature of Tears Our tears of mirth celebrate our success, our achievements, and the occasional healthy wave of pride. Those joyful tears bolster our confidence to remain steadfast to the art of living, to the principles that guide our endeavors, and to the road we have chosen to walk. The Relief and Renewal Tears Bring All tears offer relief. All tears grant pardons. All tears open windows, encouraging fresh air and reorganizing thought. We begin anew after a good cry, never more so then when they write.
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