When Parents Go To Jail

By Brad Gosse

When Parents Go To Jail... Practical Information For A Situation That Nobody Planned For But Several People Created

It was a surprise. Not necessarily in the way that "surprise" usually means, but in the timeline sense: you didn't know it was happening and then it was happening and now a parent is not at the dinner table and the explanation that has been provided varies by who in the family is providing it. This book addresses what happens when a parent goes to jail: the practical household implications, the explanations available at various age levels, and the specific range of "they're away for a while" framings that families deploy in the early stage before everyone agrees on what the accurate version is.

This adult parody book handles a difficult family situation in the illustrated children's book format that has proven, across this series, to be the most honest available vehicle for situations that adult formats find difficult to address with both accuracy and humor. When parents go to jail, the household continues. The household has practical needs. The book addresses those needs with cartoon art and the resigned pragmatism of someone who has done the research on what happens next and produced a guide.

This Book IS For: Adults who grew up in households where a parent's absence required explanation and find the dark humor of distance now availableFans of comedy that uses real, difficult experiences as material and finds the funny without losing the truthSocial workers, family services professionals, and teachers who encounter this situation and need something for their perspective shelfGift-givers who know the specific recipient for whom this book will be the most recognizable and cathartic gift availableThis Book Is NOT For: People currently in the early weeks of this situation in their own family for whom the humor requires more time to developReaders who believe incarceration should not be addressed through illustrated parody regardless of the intentAnyone whose parent is currently incarcerated and who received this book without consenting to the specific genreFamily members who prefer the "away for a while" framing and need it to remain unchallenged for the foreseeable futureAppropriate For: Gag gifts for adults who have processed this experience long enough to find the illustrated version cathartic rather than painfulWhite elephant exchanges among people close enough to each other that this recognition produces laugh rather than concernGifts for anyone working in family services, youth counseling, or any field where this is a known situationAnyone who has had to explain where a parent was using the softest available framing and who is old enough now to find the gap funnyWhy Buy This

The criminal justice system processes millions of parents annually. The children of those parents receive explanations of varying accuracy about where mom or dad has gone. This book provides the direct version that the varying explanations were approximating. It is more accurate than "away for a while." It is more accurate than a lot of the other framings that get deployed in this situation. Accuracy delivered via cartoon art at a price that doesn't require a payment plan is a service.

Buy it for someone who grew up with this experience and has the distance to find it funny. Buy it for a professional who encounters the situation regularly and needs something to break the tension in their own processing. Buy it because the household continued when the parent left and the household continuing was its own kind of story that the book tells. When parents go to jail, someone else figures it out. The book documents the figuring out. The figuring out is the whole thing.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: B08YS62SYM
• ISBN13: 9798721897191
• Release Date: March 2021
• Publisher: Independently Published
• Length: 30 Pages
• Weight: 0.21 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.1" x 8.5" x 8.5"