When Love Languages Hurt: Healing the Gap between Expectation and Emotional Reality

By Dr. Tolulope Oko-Igaire

For years, couples have been told that the secret to lasting love lies in "speaking the right love language." But what happens when that language feels foreign or worse, impossible to speak?

In this bold, compassionate, and groundbreaking book, Africa's foremost couple, sex, and mental health therapist exposes the hidden flaws of the popular love language model and offers a deeper, more realistic path to emotional connection.

Drawing on decades of clinical experience, she explores how trauma, upbringing, culture, emotional exhaustion, and identity confusion silently sabotage relationships. With a blend of psychology, real-life case studies, and therapeutic tools like Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) and her signature; Transformative Identity Reengineering Intervention (TIRI), this book will help you reshape how you view and interact with love languages.

This isn't just another relationship book. It's a healing manual for couples who want more than love, who want transformation.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: B0FLW738SY
• ISBN13: 9798297238596
• Release Date: August 2025
• Publisher: Independently Published
• Length: 156 Pages
• Weight: 0.48 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.3" x 6.0" x 9.0"