When Love Is a Lie: Narcissistic Partners & the Pathological Relationship Agenda

by Zari L. Ballard

Book Overview

[Now includes a 14-page excerpt from Zari Ballard's new book Stop Spinning, Start Breathing ] When our committed relationship involves a narcissistic partner or someone with a narcissistic personality... This description may be from another edition of this product.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: 149040709X
• ISBN13: 9781490407098
• Release Date: July 2013
• Publisher: Createspace Independent Publishing Platform
• Length: 228 Pages
• Weight: 0.70 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.5" x 5.5" x 8.5"

Customer Reviews

Good book. Wasn’t quite what I was expecting.

Good book. Wasn’t quite what I was expecting. This book has some good points. I didn’t like how she abbreviated so much and just put N instead of narcissists, it made it hard to read sometimes. This book does help you know you are not the only one who has the misfortune of falling for a narcissist, and will help you to see the signs of narcissism. I think the love fraud website that she talks about can be a good place to start to find answers. I love how she says what we allow will continue. This really spoke to me. Other quotes from this book that helped me include: The ability and willingness to set boundaries is a person’s only protection against narcissism. Life is so precious and loving a narcissist will kill the best years of your life in the blink of an eye. You can be an empathetic, loving and generous person, and still make a decision that you are not responsible for other people’s problems. You didn’t create them and you cannot fix them. Overall this was a good book. I think it would have been more helpful to me if I would have found it sooner. I wish I found it when I first started on my journey to reality and I had just realized I married a narcissist. Here are some other books that I recommend: The Narcissistic Family: Diagnosis and Treatment...by Robert M. Pressman and Stephanie Donaldson-Pressman Disarming the Narcissist: Surviving & Thriving...by Wendy T. Behary