Previously published as We Said, "I Do," Now What? by Richard and Nancy Wallace.
Building a strong relationship means learning how to handle far more than communication alone.
We Said, "I Do," Now What? is a comprehensive, practical guide for couples navigating the realities of building a life together. In this expanded Second Edition, relationship coaches Richard and Nancy Wallace explore the decisions, pressures, conversations, and everyday patterns that influence how couples grow together over time.
At the center of the book is the Relationships Reimagined(R) 7 Foundations Framework(TM), organized around Communication, Finances, Intimacy, Conflict, Growth, Boundaries, and Trust.
Through research informed insights, relatable composite stories, practical exercises, reflection questions, and actionable strategies, couples will explore:
- communicating more effectively and working through conflict- managing finances and planning for the future together- strengthening emotional and physical intimacy- maintaining romance, friendship, fun, and shared experiences- navigating technology and digital boundaries- addressing hidden truths, broken trust, and difficult seasons- balancing individuality with the life being built together- managing family relationships, boundaries, roles, and responsibilities- supporting personal growth while continuing to grow as a couple- building trust and long term commitment through consistent choices
Designed for couples across different stages of committed relationships, We Said, "I Do," Now What? provides a practical framework for examining what is working, addressing what needs attention, and making deliberate choices about the relationship you want to build.
Love, life, and everything in between. This is the guide for navigating it together.