Vows: The African-American Couples' Guide to Designing a Sacred Ceremony

By Harriette Cole

Book Overview

In 1993 Harriette Cole wrote Jumping the Broom, the first wedding guide specifically for African-American couples, showing them how to create a wedding that honored their culture and heritage. In her new book, Vows, Cole turns her attention to the heart of the special day: the wedding ceremony.With everything that is involved in planning a wedding, it is easy to get so caught up in all the details of the celebration that you lose sight of the significance of what you are actually doing -- committing to make a life together. In this beautiful volume, Cole gives you the guidance and inspiration you need to focus your energy on the spiritual and sacred aspect of your wedding day. Chapters include:Reflecting on Your Commitment: What does marriage mean to each of you? How can you honor and express to your community the life you intend to create and share?Ceremonial Rituals from Around the World: A selection of wedding traditions to inspire you.Writing Your Own Wedding Vows: Vows from many traditions and religions, as well as guidelines for transforming your feelings for each other into words.Illuminated by anecdotes from couples remembering their own weddings, and illustrated with beautiful black-and-white photographs by George Chinsee, Vows is a book every African-American couple must have.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: 0684873141
• ISBN13: 9780684873145
• Release Date: December 2004
• Publisher: Simon & Schuster
• Length: 224 Pages
• Weight: 0.60 lbs.
• Dimensions: 7.7" x 0.6" x 4.9"

Customer Reviews

Vows

Excellent book. I recommend it to anyone who is considering having a culturally centered wedding. My husband and I are culturally conscious (he more than I) and I truly appreciated the Yoruba Tasting Ceremony. My pastor had never performed such a wedding and he really commented on the importance of the tasting ceremony and the blessing of those in attendance. Great guide.