Updating!: How to Get a Man or Woman Who Once Seemed Out of Your League

by Leil Lowndes

Book Overview

Following on the heels of Leil Lowndes's bestselling book How to Make Anyone Fall in Love with You, UpDating shows you how to attract a mate who once seemed out of your league. Written in her... This description may be from another edition of this product.

• Format: Hardcover
• Language: English
• ISBN: 0071403094
• ISBN13: 9780071403092
• Release Date: December 2003
• Publisher: McGraw-Hill Companies
• Length: 215 Pages
• Weight: 1.00 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.9" x 5.8" x 8.6"

Customer Reviews

Men, don't call me until you've read this book!

I'm not ashamed to say I am an attractive woman with high class tastes. And I want a man a lot more cultivated than the "frogs," as the author calls them, that I've been dating. Reading this book doesn't guarantee that it will turn every frog into a Prince, but it sure will help guys please women they thought they could never get. I've shared the book with some girlfriends and they all agree. In one part Lowndes tells you how to dress, how to furnish your home, how to talk to more refined people and even how to exude the quiet confidence that all women like. Read it and then call me!

Yet another homerun by Leil!

This book is FANTASTIC!!! Through check-lists, exercises, and hilarious examples (often backed up by proven scientific research), Leil takes readers on a journey to get THE BEST in life. After reading this book, I've developed the confidence to go after anyone. I've also learned "don't date any more frogs....only look for royals". Some of the concepts are quite simple, but VERY POWERFUL. I highly recommend this book.

Want to date out of your league? This book shows you how.

I highly recommend "Updating" for anyone who wants to upgrade their love life. There is fabulous information on what each type of "out of your league" person is looking for in a mate. Then the author tells you the precise moves to make to appeal to that particular type of superior person.It's sure not the same old tricks you read about in most books on getting a partner! Gorgeous or classy people want a lot more and this shows you how to give it to them. She also tells you how to upgrade YOURSELF to appeal the above or more creative and honorable potential partners.

Whew! So true it's scary

Everybody has dreamed of dating better people. But after reading Updating, the dreaming is over and it's becoming a reality. Having the typical "You gotta show me" mentality we have in Missouri, I needed proof. Not to sound arrogant, but I read Updating and now I'm convinced that I can get the best -- and I know how to do it. The author gives studies which back up everything she says. And one of them is that people always underestimate their ability to attract. As she wrote, because of many reasons, especially lack of self-esteem, we SUBCONSCIOUSLY shy away from making a 100% effort to go after what we want. We only go after who we think we deserve. It's so true. Now I know where to find and how to appeal to the men I want -- and know I deserve. My self image and my love life have improved spectactularly. Read this book and you will soon be hanging with a better class of people too.

Wow, this book is terrific! It's a "10"

I thought Leil's "How to Make Anybody Fall in Love With You" was tops. But "Updating" is even better because it's not just how to make ANYBODY fall in love with you. She tells you where to hunt, and how to get, a spectacular partner.(Way out of your league?) What I like is that "one size doesn't fit all." In different sections, she gives you get realistic and researched techniques to win a different type of superior man or woman. Do you want someone who is:1) Very rich?2) Famous?3) High class and discriminating?4) Gorgeous?5) Creative and interesting?6) Ethical and honorable?She tells you what type of person each is looking for, and why they respond to different approaches. "Updating " tells you where to find each particular type and how to win them over. I happened to want a beautiful and refined woman (they really ARE different than average women,) and her unusual techniques worked. I am now dating a classy 10!________________________________________________________________