They told us loyalty would lead somewhere.
They just never said where.
unWISE: Loyalty Was the Job. Burnout Was the Bonus. is a measured, unflinching account of a career built inside systems that reward endurance while quietly asking for more than they give.
Beginning in the late 1990s and spanning decades across legal, government, healthcare, startup, and executive environments, this memoir traces one woman's professional life from survival work to corporate leadership - and the cost of staying too long in places that promised stability but delivered erosion instead.
This is not a story about one bad boss or one toxic workplace.
It's about a culture of professional loyalty - where proximity feels like progress, where advancement is deferred just long enough to keep you reaching, and where exhaustion is reframed as dedication.
Through moments of access, stalled promotion, and normalized burnout, unWISE examines how opportunity is offered, how loyalty is leveraged, and how ambition can quietly become obligation.
It explores the difference between:
- being needed and being valued
- structure and safety
- success and sustainability
This is not a revenge story.
It's a reckoning.