To The One I Will End Up With is a deeply personal work of creative nonfiction that traces the journey of Kamsi, a queer Nigerian man searching for love, belonging, and a sense of self. Moving through the tenderness of first crushes, the intensity of secret relationships, and the ache of heartbreak, Kamsi encounters people who shape him in unexpected ways. Each chapter tells a story of connection and loss, of what it means to be chosen, to be left behind, and to keep longing for something real.
More than a record of relationships, this book is a meditation on vulnerability, resilience, and survival. It reveals how love can be both safety and harm, and how healing comes not from finding "the one" but from finding yourself. Honest, lyrical, and unflinching, it speaks to anyone who has ever loved too deeply, too quickly, or too quietly.