Death
To become who you are, you must let go of who you were.
The unbecoming is the active, intentional, deliberate release of everything that isn't you. Not passive loss. Active choice.
In this book, you'll shed identities that were never yours. Release relationships that no longer fit. Break patterns that have run you your whole life. Rewrite stories that have kept you small. Let go of parts of yourself that were never really you.
The unbecoming is terrifying. It's also the most freeing thing you'll ever do. Because on the other side of letting go is everything you've been seeking.
The unbecoming clears the way. The becoming fills the space.