The Third Person in Your Bed: How Addiction Takes Over a Relationship-and How to Take It Back

By Christopher Fields

When one partner's addiction enters a marriage or relationship, it doesn't just create conflict-it rewires the entire partnership. The Third Person in Your Bed is a direct, compassionate guide for anyone living alongside a partner's alcohol use, drug addiction, or compulsive behavior. Drawing on addiction neuroscience, clinical research, and the lived patterns of couples in crisis, this book examines how addiction hijacks love, how enabling and codependency develop as natural but damaging responses, and what it genuinely takes-for both partners-to recover. With clear statistics, honest frameworks for communication, and practical guidance on setting real limits, rebuilding broken trust, and navigating relapse, this is the book that meets you where the problem actually lives.

Whether your relationship ultimately survives or ends, the work described here belongs to you. This book does not promise easy answers or guaranteed outcomes. It promises clarity-about what you are dealing with, what you can and cannot control, and how to move through one of the most difficult experiences a relationship can face with your integrity, your sense of self, and your capacity for genuine love intact.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: B0H4CGK7G8
• ISBN13: 9798180394040
• Release Date: June 2026
• Publisher: Independently Published
• Length: 108 Pages
• Weight: 0.25 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.2" x 5.0" x 8.0"