System: How To Get Laid Today!

By Roy Valentine

Book Overview

The System offers a unique approach to "getting" women. Instead of giving generic rules and macho advice about dating and women, this book gives specific step-by-step instructions on how to take women... This description may be from another edition of this product.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: 097291871X
• ISBN13: 9780972918718
• Release Date: January 2003
• Publisher: Eye Contact Media
• Length: 208 Pages
• Weight: 0.50 lbs.
• Dimensions: 6.8" x 0.5" x 4.0"

Customer Reviews

Get real, read The System and start getting laid with no complications

I recieved The System a few weeks ago and so far I've liked what I've seen. I have met many women (thoug I admit I haven't been going out a lot, like 1 or 2 times a week), and two of them took me to their apartment inmediatly :). One was a 26 years old girl who was sitting with a friend at a restaurant when I approached her (she was giving me MAD eye contact, waving and all that stuff), and the other one was a popular ex-model of 36 years old who I met at a friend's party. I can't complain so far. I'm sure I would have still more success if I got out at least 4 nights weekly or drive to many places during daytime. The most I like about the book is that if you read it well, when you go out and start having sucess, you feel confident that you can get laid whenever you want, and the desperation disappears. Still, you must put what you read into practice and experience what it is said there by yourself, not just read it and hope that some girl with enter your house to get you laid, that's for late night movie scripts. I want to make a few points though: from the reviews I've seen some guys who apparently have read other seduction materials and expect this to be hardcore stuff or something like that. Contrary to that, the book is very simple, so simple that during and after reading it, you say "¡I knew that, that's pure logic" but if you think about it, yes, it was very logical stuff, but had you tried to apply that sometimes? Let me explain, the main rule of The System is the 1% rule, which basically states that wherever and whenever, at least there's always 1% of the girls ready to go to bed with you (ex: in a 100 people bar, there's minimum 1 girl you can lay that same day). Yeah, you can say sarcastically "wow what a great discovery" but as I asked above, "ok mr. smart guy, but have you actually been out there looking everywhere until you find that ready-to-bed girl?"... ask yourself this and you will know if you are just another one critizising or a happy person who's confident that he can get laid the same day if he's motivated to go out until you find that 1%. I should add that I also read lots of dating material and that sort of stuff in the past, however, most of that is focused on building attraction, manipulation, pick up lines, complex techniques and all that sort of stuff you find by reading "The Game" by Neil Strauss (a great eye-opener book by the way), things that make your interaction with women complicated and focuses more on your ego than on getting laid. However, even for an experienced guy in other seduction material, after dropping all that complex stuff, this is a refresher. You will actually GET LAID (that's the only purpouse in the book), not spend lots of your time going out approaching the wrong women for 'practicing' your 'laser-beam attraction-hypnosis self-delusional powers'. Get real, just get laid and enjoy. Read The System and APPLY IT. Now for the bad stuff. A few things that I think the book missed. First, th

Impressively accurate

This is the most underrated book I have run across in a long time. I call it underrated because I've never heard about this book until recently. What's interesting however is that it works. I've had the book now for only 2 weeks and I have already closed from literally following the book's advise. I've read the other books on the subject and have tried to follow them but most of these kind of books are a lot of fluff and ego crap. Just a waste of money. I even went to a couple seminars and that was another big waste of money. The System is simple, to the point, filled with great examples of how to use the "5-Steps to Success", and most importantly - it works. I'm not sure how much more I can recommend this book but to say that I've always wished that there was a simple and easy way to go out and pick up a girl whenever I felt like it. I always thought it was impossible but now I know different. This is the real thing guys. They should teach a class on this in high school or college. Great book. Thanks Roy Valentine.

Female Psychology

I just read a review from someone who did NOT read the book. I thought her assumptions were interesting though incorrect. Since I did read the book here is my review of it. This System tackles an interesting challenge. How can you pick up a girl, have sex with her, yet do it in a respectful way. I like this book because it's the only pick up book that I've read that actually shows you both sides of the coin. Women are not featured as targets or victims. They are featured as powerful and intellectual individuals who are capable of making decisions about their own sexuality. At some points of the book I was surprised at Valentine's candid approach. It's the only pick up book that I've read where the author said "I never lie to women! There's never a reason to. When you lie, you have put the burden of the relationship and her feelings and her life on your back. Don't lie, tell her the truth." In many ways, this book goes way beyond pick up techniques and teaches the psychology of interpersonal relationship between men and women. Men are advised and taught how to understand "the mental game" before even trying to approach a woman. I also found the body language approach to be compelling. We all know that 80% to 90% of all human communication happens non-verbally (body language). From the initial eye contact to sleeping with a woman to follow up (believe it or not Valentine discourages one-night-stands), the author shows how to read every move a woman makes so you are always at least one step ahead of her. He expresses that the ability to read women body language gives you the power to determine if and when you would like to take her home. The book also discourages "pick up lines". It actually teaches us how seduce women by establishing a connection with them verbally. It teaches you how to have conversations with women that will make you more interesting to her. Any communication or psychology professional will recognize the theory of 100% communication in this book. Non-verbal + verbal = 100% communication. The book teaches how to achieve this level of connection and how to use it to have sexual relationships with women. The book is only 208 pages and at the end you have a feeling of wanting more. After reading it (less than 2 hrs) I felt like I had just crammed a human relationship class, a sex 101 class, a sociology class, a psychology class, a male and female sexuality class, and a communications class. I felt like I understood how all these schools of knowledge interact together (I was a good student but I think I missed the link between all these things while in college). I recommend this book highly to both men and women. I think it has essential information for single men trying to meet someone. I think it's also critical for women who would like a better understanding of themselves in a social environment and in relationships.

Singularly Focused

I'm a ball player so I've really never had much trouble getting girls. I got this book because all my buddies kept talking about it and kept asking my opinion. I never felt any guy should need a book to get girls but after reading this book I had to give some credit to the author. In essence, the title tells the entire story. Also, the stated goal of the book according to the author is "to be able to meet a girl, seduce her, take her home, and have sex with her within minutes of meeting her". Of course that caught my attention and as I read the book I found the author to be very focused on explaining how this can be done. I've never had a system but I had to admit that a lot of what was explained in the book is what I've always done with my buddies to get girls. I belive this book will work for guys that need a little help with getting girls. I think the book is right about a lot of the things it says about why guys aren't able to "close". I think the 5-step process will be good for guys because it's like a cheat sheet of what to do. Other things I liked about the book: stories of his success and failures; identifying the right women; cooking for women on dates; understanding how women think and what their needs are; understanding your own limiting thoughts. I think these are all key things that every guy should understand. My buddy got the illustrated version with the sexy pics. I got the unillustrated version which catches a bit less attention.