The Self First Principle: Breaking The Myth Of "We Rise By Lifting Others"

By Carol A. Conner

For generations, we've been told a beautiful lie: "We rise by lifting others." It sounds noble, inspiring, even selfless-but it comes at a cost.
In The Self First Principle, Carol A. Conner challenges one of society's most celebrated beliefs and exposes the hidden dangers of endless self-sacrifice. With clarity and courage, she argues that true progress, fulfillment, and success are impossible without first putting yourself at the center of your own life.
This is not a manifesto for selfishness. It is a call for balance, boundaries, and the radical act of choosing yourself before pouring into others. Through thought-provoking insights, real-life examples, and practical strategies, Conner shows how prioritizing your own growth, energy, and well-being creates a stronger foundation for everything-and everyone-else in your life.
You will discover:
Why the myth of self-sacrifice keeps people stuck in cycles of burnout and resentment. How putting yourself first leads to greater impact, not less. The difference between genuine contribution and destructive martyrdom. Practical steps to reclaim your time, energy, and purpose without guilt.
If you've ever felt drained, unappreciated, or trapped in the role of always giving, this book will free you. It's time to rewrite the story: You don't rise by lifting others-you rise by lifting yourself first.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: B0FP4JR9VT
• ISBN13: 9798262649075
• Release Date: August 2025
• Publisher: Independently Published
• Length: 60 Pages
• Weight: 0.21 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.1" x 6.0" x 9.0"