You were made for love. But not the kind you've been taught to chase.
Most of us have spent our lives hustling for love. We learned early that to be accepted, we had to earn it. Be impressive. Be useful. Be wanted. So we performed. We edited ourselves. We measured worth by attention, applause, and approval.
And we brought that same equation into our faith.
We believed love was something we had to maintain-through spiritual performance, moral strength, or emotional polish. Even when we heard that "God is love," we quietly wondered if that love was only for the clean, the consistent, the put-together.
But what if love isn't what you thought it was? What if it's more offensive, more liberating, and more disruptive than anyone ever told you?
This isn't a book about how to be more loving.
It's a book about being undone and remade by a love that moves first, stays longest, and refuses to be earned.