The Sandwich Has Two Sides: Book 2: The Invisible Load
From a licensed psychologist and former Alzheimer's researcher at Mt. Sinai Medical Center comes the book every woman in the sandwich generation has needed and could not find.
You did not plan to become a caregiver. You became one the way most women do: gradually, then all at once. And now you are caught between the needs of an aging parent and the demands of your own life, your job, your partner, your children, your health, and the person you were before this all started. You are being asked to be fully present in two places at once. Nobody has acknowledged that this is impossible.
The Sandwich Has Two Sides names what is actually happening to you. The anticipatory grief of watching a parent decline. The guilt loop that keeps you overextending past the point of sustainability. The sibling conversations you have been avoiding. The practical decisions that need to be made before a crisis forces them. And what the research shows about caring for someone you love without destroying yourself in the process.
Dr. Patricia A. Farrell draws on decades of research in caregiver health, anticipatory grief, and the psychology of sustainable caregiving to give adult daughters something they rarely get: honest science, stated clearly, with specific steps they can actually take.
No patient anecdotes. No soft comfort. No advice that requires a simpler life than the one you have. Just research, plain English, and the acknowledgment that both sides of the sandwich are real.
If you are caring for an aging parent while keeping everything else going, this book was written for you.
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