The Rules of Getting Laid: Get the Sex You Want

by David A. Graff and David Graff

This outrageous, hilarious, politically incorrect book shows men the boneheaded mistakes thety make in seducing women. Graff and Schwartz are unrelenting in their street wise approach to dating. This... This description may be from another edition of this product.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: 0961317752
• ISBN13: 9780961317751
• Release Date: January 1999
• Publisher: MPC Press
• Length: 135 Pages
• Weight: 0.45 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.4" x 5.5" x 8.7"

Customer Reviews

Very helpful and to the point

This book is really powerful in its information and the writing style of Graff and Schwartz. I loved the book, the rules were very useful for me in my situation. I think that this book is one of the best out there on dating for men. I have read some of the others and they did not provide as much useful information as this one. The authors are also very funny in their writing style. It was as if the authors were right there talking to me, egging me on. This book reminds me more of a philosophy book or a book of bottom line philosophy than dating. Many of their views are applicable to all men, not just those looking to date. I appreciate the effort and look forward to buying anything else they put out. Do yourself a favor and pick up a copy.

I wish I'd had this years ago!

This book rocks! I can't believe how useful it's been to me--or some of the errors I've been making in trying to seduce women. For so long it seems like if I was able to get in front of women, I wouldn't know what to say--but that wasn't a problem because I couldn't get in front of women anyway! This book helped me both get in front of more attractive women, and also gave me help in knowing what to say and knowing how to behave. The book is really inspiring--the authors talk about being a "man's man," who makes life work for him and who doesn't sell out to women--which is something I can see I've been doing. Now that I'm not selling out and groveling to women, I'm actually a lot more attractive to them--surprise! I can say that this book has made a big difference for me, if only because I'm not being women's doormat anymore, and that they told me exactly HOW to not be their doormats. This has really re-charged my dating life after a long dry spell. This book is obnoxious and may not be for everybody, but it really was just what I needed to get me started and doing the right stuff.

Thanks for writing this book

Yes, I have read other books on this topic and rarely found much value. To start, I am 42 and live in Chicago. I have been divorced for six years and have spent the past few years getting more and more depressed. I have gone long periods with out dating and even longer without sex. I work in the computer field and am in pretty good shape and make a decent income. I just have been really stopped when it comes to meeting women.Last year I began buying the other books and tapes out there on dating. I mainly felt ripped off. I would buy a book and try the faulty techniques and usually end up more frustrated than when I started. At one point I used one of those "language patterns" and had a woman slap me and dump a beer on my lap. Three months ago I bought the Rules for Getting Laid and this book has been the catalyst I have been waiting for. I have been waiting for some decent advice that I can actually put into place. I have been waiting for a rational approach to meet women. More importantly I have been waiting a long time to read a book that will tell me the principals of being a man's man. The principals of being confident and the approach that Graff teaches really has made an impact in my approach. I can easily say that I have had more success in the past two months that I have for six years of lonliness. I am now dating three women and have gone out on 16 dates over the past three months. I have transformed my ability to be rejected and still keep going. I can now approach several women per day and not get totally depressed when they reject me. The princials in this book are worth reading over and over and over again, and I do.

Pass judgement AFTER you read the book

Don't let the cover and the title fool you. I got this book as a present. Last Wednesday I had a couple of hours to kill, I figure what the hell, I could probably use a good chuckle. The more I read, the more I liked and understood. This isn't a juvenile Beavis & Butthead how to score with chicks type of book. This book is NOT about lying, cheating, psychological manoeuvering, manipulating or exploiting women in any way. Instead, it's about salesmanship, self respect and self improvement. It's about salesmanship, when you have a great product (YOU :) ), you don't just tell one person about it or only try to sell it to one person. You present yourself to many women, the law of averages dictates that a certain percentage of those women will like you enough to want to sleep with you. It's about self respect, not begging, not grovelling for sex, but maintaining your own dignity, pride, composure and self respect regardless of the outcome of your encounters with women. It's about self improvement. There are certain qualities which women find attractive. By maximizing those qualities, you also maximize your chances. This book just drives that point home. The authors says never to let anyone know you're reading the book, so, this will be an anonymous review. Buy this book, you truly will not regret it.

Study this for the insider secrets

My only recommendation is that you buy everythign these guys produce because they have a such a strong handle on how to charm women and become man's men. I have purchased their tape series, done phone counseling, and read and re-read this book countless times. I have found their philosophy and dating to be dead-on acurate and useful. After reading this book for the first time I felt more confidence with women than every before, and over time I've dated more women than ever before. The philosophy presented by Schwartz and Graff is also applicable to being a man. How to approach life with balls and power, carving out a life worth living. I have been able to apply the information to my sales position as well as my relationships with friends and family. Read the book already and quit whining about how your life sucks and how you can't get laid. This book is fun, easy to read, and kills the competition.