The Men and the Girls

by Joanna Trollope

Book Overview

Suddenly in their sixties, the Men have reached acritical juncture -- in their emotional lives, in their careers... and in their loving relationships with the Girls, who are half their age. Popular... This description may be from another edition of this product.

• Format: Hardcover
• Language: English
• ISBN: 067942587X
• ISBN13: 9780679425878
• Release Date: August 1993
• Publisher: Random House (NY)
• Length: 248 Pages
• Weight: 1.50 lbs.
• Dimensions: 1.0" x 6.5" x 9.6"

Customer Reviews

True at Heart

I read this book years ago, but it's one of those that lingers. Trollope knows the human heart and it comes through in this tale about lonely people who form a bond and a home together. I became a Trollope fan after this, but Men and the Girls remains my favorite J. Trollope novel.

One of Trollope's best

I have read nearly all Joanna Trollope's books and this book is one of her best. The story was complex without exaggeration. I especially enjoyed the intergenerational weave of relationships.

Giving Versus Taking

I often wonder why the brilliant Ms. Trollope gives such deceptively fluffy titles to all her books, when every book she writes contains such richness. Is that why, in a recent review, I saw her described as "cozy"? I almost fainted!Therefore, let me say it here and now: If you are looking for cozy and comforting romance (and there's nothing wrong with that!), Joanna Trollope is not your author. If, on the other hand, you enjoy reading about likeable, oh-so-human characters who try, in their own muddled way, to slog through the complexities of everyday life, you will love "The Men and the Girls," another Trollope masterpiece.The "men," in this case, are James and Hugh, both successful, urbane friends who are now in their 60s, and who have known each other over 40 years. Theirs is a friendship made indescructible by time and understanding, even if there are times when each grates horribly on the other. Each man, as it happens, has chosen a companion very much younger than himself. James, an academic, has been living with Kate, a lovely and artless woman in her 30s who prefers menial jobs (such as waitressing) so she can pursue her true passions, such as helping out at a home for battered women. She has an impossible teenaged daughter, Joss, the product of a brief and hurtful romance gone wrong. Kate and James are very happy; their household is completed by James' elderly uncle, Leonard, whose cantankerous bellowing belies a tender heart. The heart of the house is Kate, who keeps everything going and who manages her horrible teenager and the equally horrible Leonard with love and aplomb. Hugh, a minor TV personality, lives with the prim and proper Julia, also in her 30s, a lovely woman who has given birth to Hugh's only children, impeccable twin boys. Their picturebook life is lived in a beautifully decorated and spotless house with a gorgeous garden, all the work of Julia, who keeps her six-year-old twins equally clean and perfect. Julia also works in television, but devotes the majority of her time to Hugh, her boys, and her house and garden.In both relationships, James' and Hughs', the men take wholeheartedly of their women's love and nurturing, and age seems to be no problem whatsoever. Enter a totally unlikely catalyst: a plain and elderly spinster names Beatrice, whom James has accidentally knocked off her bicycle on a dark and rainy night. Beatrice is unhurt, but James, understandably upset, becomes involved in her life, first out of guilt, and then out of real interest.It is at this point that Kate suddenly and cruelly decides that she cannot live with James another minute, and uproots herself and her daughter with no thought to the consquences other than the need to escape. A similar situation occurs with Julia and Hugh (too complicated to describe in a review), and they, too, separate. And suddenly, our preconceived ideas about who are the givers and who are the takers are completely reversed, as the four protagonists must shift their liv

Likeable Characters Ring True in a Modern Tale

Trollope has become one of my favorite authors and this book is one of the reasons why. Her characters draw you in with their everyday humanity; none of them are perfect and you feel you can relate to most of them. With a title like The Men and the Girls you might think you know where Trollope is going with this -- some kind of modern morality play -- but that's never the case with her stuff. She paints a lively, honest picture of what's real and complicated about our daily modern lives, including all the little things we do that can be so telling. Her endings are rarely contrived or completely happy, and so seem all the more real.And even though some of her characters seem a bit too quirky for their own good, the end result is one of embracing what's different and hence "normal" about us all.This book should appeal to all kinds of people...women in relationships with older men, and men of the same age... men in relationships with younger women, women of the same age, and older women! (OK Ms. Trollope can u spin us a yarn next time with a woman and a younger man?!).This American reader is devoted to this British author. Enjoy!

Another can't-put-down effort by Trollope.

Yet another marvelously drawn and engrossing story by Ms. Trollope of disparate characters living ordinary English lives. Two Masterpiece Theatre miniseries of her books have been made; all her titles warrant such media attention.I love introducing my friends to this literate, perceptive author wno does her literary ancestor proud.