The Last Mazurka: A Family's Tale of War, Passion, and Loss

By Andrew Tarnowski

Book Overview

The shot Count Hieronim Tarnowski fired on his wedding night in 1914, on the eve of the First World War, was like a tocsin that sounded the doom of his ancient Polish family. When, in August 1939, on the eve of another war, his daughter Sophie saw blood pouring down the side of her train, she felt a terrible foreboding and knew her idyllic world would be swept away. Thirty years later, when Count Hieronim's British grandson Andrew learned of the death of his mother---the beautiful, fragile, and abused Chouquette---his sense of a lost identity deepened and he set out to rediscover the world from which he came. These moments punctuate an extraordinary tale of the downfall of a once-powerful family, which in turn mirrors the twentieth-century fate of a nation ravaged by invasions and crushed by tyranny. Before 1945, Poland, now a fledgling EU country, was an almost Tolstoyan world of wolf hunts and extravagant wealth, set alongside great poverty and a semifeudal peasantry, in a landscape of frozen fields and dark forests. Broken by war, it was reduced by Communism to drab uniformity, and a way of life was lost forever. This world out of time is the setting for Andrew Tarnowski's memoir, " The Last Mazurka"," " a tale of loss and exile, love and violence, wandering and longing, told with poignancy and unexpected humor, and a lingering regret.

• Format: Hardcover
• Language: English
• ISBN: 0312367406
• ISBN13: 9780312367404
• Release Date: August 2007
• Publisher: St. Martin's Press
• Length: 348 Pages
• Weight: 1.18 lbs.
• Dimensions: 1.3" x 5.9" x 8.4"

Customer Reviews

A Poignant Tale

With The Last Mazurka, Andrew Tarnowski paints a hauntingly bittersweet portrait of his family set against the pain and tumult of World War II. Like the musical strains of a Polish mazurka, this memoir is lively, courageous, and absolutely mesmerizing!

Echoes of Halcyon Days

In this outstanding book, Andrew Tarnowski describes the fairy tale like lives of his Polish aristocratic relatives from the early 1900s up until world war II, after which their highly privileged lives came to a crashing halt. He continues to describe what happened in the lives of key relatives into the 1970s, '80s and '90s. For instance, his parents, Chouquette (Sophie Jaxa-Chamiec)later married Malcom Wolfe Murray and his father Stas Tarnowski later married Ada Lubomirska (with whom he had six children). They all lead fascinating lives but their past haunted them even then. The author did a marvelous job of chronicling and piecing together his family history from interviews, memoirs, historical documents and oral family history. As the old adage goes "truth is stranger than fiction" and it holds true for this book which reads like a fictional account of immensely exaggerated proportions, only the stories in this book are facts, they are true and really happened, just as they are recorded. We learn that the beautiful tall thin, auburn-haired Countess Wanda Zamoyska of Dzikow, who was strong willed and self-assured and loved glamour and high society had - through parental guidance and arrangements married Count Hieronim Tarnowski of Rudnik, in 1914. He was congenial looking, had dark wavy hair, a high forehead and a rather too prominent a nose but most importantly was the heir to a substantial fortune, which was the main consideration for Wanda's widowed mother whose family fortunes had fallen on hard times. Hieronim was highly educated and besides his native Polish, he spoke seven other languages fluently, English German, French, Greek, Italian, Spanish and Latin. His ancestors played prominent roles in Polish history from the 14th to 16th centuries. His father Professor Stanislaw Tarnowski was a renowned academic who was showered with great honors and held a prestigious postion with the Jagiellonina University in Krakow. His ancestors helped found the university over 500 years before. Unfortunately, this couple was ill matched from the beginning and their lives and those of their children, Sophie and Stas, showed the after effects of their less than happy union throughout their lives. Furthermore, it was whispered that Wanda was likely the illigitimate daughter of Hieronim's first cousin so -it was a marriage which should not have happened. The aristocracy hid these types of indescretions very well ... Wanda and Hieronim had two children, Sophie who was born in 1917 and Stas (Stanislaw) born in 1918. Stas was the father of the author of this book. He was a handsome man, with a somewhat arrogant attitude, who resembled the actor David Niven. Just prior to the outbreak of World War II, his sister, Sophie had married Andrew. Their marriage had taken a papal dispensation because both were too closely related. They were second cousins, grandchildren of two brothers from Dzikow. They had twelve great-grandparents in common. Although the marriage

The Disintegration of a Family, a Legacy and a Way of Life

This is a great book about a country and a culture and a time that too many of us know too little about. The narrative begins just before World War I and carries through World War II, the Communist period and the present day. It provides insight into the life of one family that made up part of Poland's priveleged class. The shortcomings and weaknesses that plagued Poland through much of its history seem to be manifested in this one, markedly dysfunctional family--the author's own. Mr. Tarnowski's writing is clear, descriptive and enjoyable. He is forthright in telling the story of his family's disintegration--a process that began long before the Nazis ravaged Poland and the Soviets subsequently crushed and neutered it. His writing quickly makes the reader familiar with the main characters; all of them are colorful, but only a few are likeable. In the end, although he doesn't say so, it is obvious that had the Germans and Soviets never crossed into Poland and stolen the riches of the ruling classes, the author's volatile, arrogant, greedy and alcoholic father would likely have singlehandedly destroyed the family's wealth and standing anyway. It reads nearly like a novel--but is all the more enjoyable because the story is real. Although a sometimes painful read, it is a thoroughly gratifying one. I'm glad the author had the talent and courage to write it.

The Last Mazurka

I found this book to be one of the most fascinating books I've read in years. It is the story of the demise of an aristocractic Polish family during World War II written by a family member born during during the war. Their odyssey took them back and forth across Europe, into (then)Palistine, Egypt, etc. During their travels, they rubbed elbows with King Farouk and Ali Kahn. On more than one occassion they were saved by family connections originated in more prosperous times. When all else was gone they sold their last possession of any value, Romanov jelewry from Catherine the Great. What really caused their demise was when, after the Germans left, the Communist regime, similar to Russia in it's revolution, took away the ownership of their estate. This was the Communist's effort to end the concept of aristocracy. In the end, some of the main characters went from enormous wealth to poverty. This book is an easy read and gives an aspect of WWII that was new to me. An interesting side light that was not in the book, but I read in another review, was that the author was ostricized from his family for writing this book. Much of the book came from family interviews and I guess they didn't want this to be aired to the public. This included the breakup of marriages and family bickering.

"Poland shall not perish..."

This family memoir is a tragic tale of the breakdown of Polish society during and after World War II. In the early part of the 20th century, the author's ancestors were considered the aristocracy, and they had possessions and wealth aplenty. The war took all of that away from them, and many were forced to flee to other places for safety. The interesting thing about the book was that, even though these folks were refugees, their aristocratic lineage enabled them to receive assistance from a plethora of rich friends and acquaintances across Europe and the Middle East so that, even if they weren't in their native land, they still maintained a reasonable standard of living. My ancestors were peasants in Poland, and they would not have been as lucky in obtaining assistance if they had to leave their homes. These folks were rather spoiled, and they played "musical beds" no matter where they were situated. Some of them never recovered from the loss of their ancestral prestige, but others adapted to a new life and lifestyle. This book once again shows that, as Norman Davis famously said, Poland is "God's Playground".