The Language of Parenting: Building Great Family Relationships at All Ages

by David M. Frees and David M. Frees III

The Language of Parenting is a compelling, interesting, and entertaining review of communication skills designed to improve family relationships at all ages. Expecting mothers, new parents, parents of... This description may be from another edition of this product.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: 0972964703
• ISBN13: 9780972964708
• Release Date: July 2003
• Publisher: Red Wire Press
• Length: 218 Pages
• Weight: 0.92 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.6" x 6.0" x 9.0"

Customer Reviews

Refreshing, Enthusiastic and Applicable

David Frees's book reminds the reader that learning is a process that should be established and continued throughout life. This book focuses on the importance of communication as a two way street and provides ways for the reader to examine the quality and efficiency of their own skills. Frees concentrates on the ability to be a listener as highly important when it comes to communication and values guidance over instruction when it comes to parenting. This book inspires you to cast assumptions aside and let your children surprise you with how capably they apply creativity to solve their own dilemmas.

Foundational and Extremely Practical!!

I initially read "The Language of Parenting: Building Great Family Relationships at all Ages" by David Frees to gain some insight and leverage in my communication with my young children. I was blown away with how abundantly practical this book was in assisting me to improve my communication in all of my relationships (kids, spouse, work, etc.) The book was very easy to follow and was filled with analogies, stories and concepts for immediate application.I highly recommend this book to anyone with children or grandchildren. At the same time, there is tremendous value for anyone who has any dealings with people. This is an all around winner as a "how to have great communication leading to great relationships book".

Communication Techniques for Life

"The quality of my communication is the quality of the response I get." ~David Frees David Frees is a communication consultant and the creator of Quantum Communication programs. He also lectures internationally and is considered to be a master communicator. In "The Language of Parenting," he presents solutions for the highly complex issues that can develop in a parent/child relationship. His book is divided into four main sections: 1. Building a Foundation: Quantum Learning and Enhanced Communication. 2. The Strategies of Great Communicators: Desired Results, The Beauty of Silence, Listening, Limits of Language and Building Rapport. 3. Tactics, Tools and Skills of Effective Communication: Avoiding Negation, Models of Creativity, Embedded Suggestions and the Power of Humor. 4. Frequently Asked Questions & Parent Resources: Questions about school age children, teenagers, adult children and teenagers. There is also a section for expectant and new parents. I immediately appreciated the larger font size and the text was especially easy to read. This book is really a summary of all the lessons David Frees has learned throughout his life. He includes scientific research, action plans, wise and funny quotes and bold text to emphasize important points. Many chapters contain a Reminder and Action section so you can put the ideas to work almost immediately. You might find one or two of the ideas helpful and then you can write them in your journal. While this book is a somewhat serious study of communication, there are some moments of interest when you will enjoy David's humor. I especially like when he puts text all in CAPS to really get your attention. Especially as he says: "you should consider the following belief" and then he really makes his point. The section on how we process words in different ways was interesting. Do you see words as pictures, as the words themselves or do they produce feelings? He also gives reasons to why e-mail should not be used for complex emotional issues. David also answers these questions: How do you eliminate fights and foster positive communication? What is the best way to approach my child about premarital sex, drinking, and drugs? Is there really a list of proven communication techniques that encourage children to live happier, healthier and more confident lives? The Language of Parenting is a highly organized collection of parenting wisdom and communications techniques. David teaches you so many excellent life skills. You can really use most of these skills in everyday communication. ~The Rebecca Review

Wisdom and Passion - A must read for all people

I've read quite a number of 'self help' books over the last few years and I find this book a unique learning experience because:Prior to discussing the topic of the title, Mr. Frees gives aperspective on learning. He is clear on the different types of learning (some people do not know that there are different ways of learning) and I appreciated the focus on peak learning environments. We all have them and if you read this book you will begin to know how to identify yours.In addition, a strategy is established for the reader ... defining a strategy is not a unique concept but Mr. Frees' reminder gets the reader to establish goals and strategies in reading the book... result .... more learning. Mr. Frees reviews effective communication .... . His discussion on congruency is one that all people can take and use each day in both their business and personal lives.The writing in this book is clear and the concepts are powerful for everyday living.Mr. Frees understands the concepts that are the foundation of a peaceful life ...a good example is his discussion on 'beliefs'.I am very grateful for the teachers that have passed along their knowledge. Communicating is Mr. Frees' wisdom and passion.

The Language of Parenting

David Frees has very articulately presented ways to help me become the parent I want to be. I loved the humor and the insight Mr. Frees so masterfully blends together.I'm always striving to discover new ways to enhance my children's love for learning. This book is filled with them!If you are a parent, or work with children, this IS a must read.