Mother Publishes the Secret Love Advice She Gave to Deceased Son. "Once a sworn secret between mother and son now shared with the world as part of Chance's legacy " When Chance was in high school he came to Colleen and asked for straightforward pointers on love, women, and romance. The pages of advice eventually grew into an organized, secret "Guy-ed" book for Chance. Why a secret because he didn't want his friends to know he was going to his mom...