The Garden of Values - Part 3: life beyond success and failure

By Rajnish Kumar

In today's world, there is no shortage of knowledge and information. And yet, we often drift away from those values and life perspectives that truly make a person sensitive, aware, and balanced. Every day, children and young people wrestle with questions such as: Why does honesty feel so difficult? Why does studying feel like a burden? What is the real harm in gossiping or lying? Why is politeness mistaken as weakness? Unfortunately, they rarely find clear and simple answers.
Sanskar Sarovar - 3 is an attempt to understand such questions and explore meaningful answers. The subjects chosen in this book are deeply connected to our daily lives, though often ignored. Whether it is the importance of welcoming guests, the need for empathy, the role of decision-making, or the rising harshness in society-each chapter encourages us to think, reflect, and self-examine.
The aim of this book is not to impose teachings, but to inspire readers to connect with themselves, reflect upon their experiences, and understand the real values of life. It is not only helpful for children and youth, but also for parents and teachers who are guiding the new generation.
Consider, for example, a student who feels burdened by studies. Is it the books themselves that are heavy, or the way society has turned education into a race? Or imagine a family that receives a guest. In older times, people welcomed them with warmth even if resources were limited-sometimes offering just tea and simple snacks with a smile. Today, hospitality is often judged by the number of dishes on the table, not the sincerity of the heart. Such examples reveal how values quietly shift, unless we remain conscious.
At a time when society is changing rapidly and competition is influencing almost everyone, it has become more necessary than ever to return to human values and to move forward on the path of becoming better individuals.
To explain the spirit of this book, a few inspirational thoughts from Indian scriptures serve as guiding lights:
The Bhagavad Gita reminds us through its eternal message - "Karmanyevaadhikaraste maa phaleshu kadaachana" - that the true duty of a human being is action, not constant worry about the result. This simple idea can bring peace to our restless lives, where we are too often fixated on outcomes rather than effort.
An ancient verse teaches us - "Excessive desires and impulses cause suffering, but the one who uses wisdom in decisions lives a long and happy life." In modern times, this becomes especially relevant when endless wants-whether gadgets, clothes, or social approval-bring stress instead of happiness.
The Hitopadesh beautifully states - "Trees bear fruit for others, rivers flow for others, cows give milk for others; in the same way, the human body is meant for serving others." In today's self-centered lifestyle, even a small act like helping a neighbor, feeding a stray animal, or listening patiently to someone in distress can revive this eternal spirit of selflessness.
Finally, the Mahabharata's timeless line - "Ahimsa paramo dharmah" - reminds us that compassion and non-violence are the highest duties. In daily life, this could mean speaking gently even when angry, resolving conflicts without aggression, or showing kindness to those weaker than us.
These values form the soul of this book. They are not meant to stay confined in words but to be practiced in daily life-whether at home, in schools, at workplaces, or within society.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: B0FR2YN7P6
• ISBN13: 9798265171689
• Release Date: September 2025
• Publisher: Independently Published
• Length: 162 Pages
• Weight: 0.43 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.3" x 5.5" x 8.5"