The Fairness Problem Between Siblings: Rivalry, Attention, Arguments and What Fair Really Means at Home
When one child says, "That's not fair ", the real argument is often about much more than a toy, a privilege or a turn.
Why does one sibling receive more attention? Why is the oldest always expected to know better? When should parents intervene, and when should children work things out themselves? How can a family be fair when every child has different needs?
In The Fairness Problem Between Siblings, Avery Caldren explores the everyday tensions that shape relationships between brothers and sisters. From jealousy, rivalry and arguments over possessions to parental favouritism, personal boundaries, changing privileges and the pressure placed on older children, this thoughtful guide examines why fairness at home is rarely as simple as treating everyone equally.
Drawing on developmental research and recognisable family situations, the book offers parents a practical understanding of sibling conflict, meaningful ways to encourage cooperation and a more balanced approach to discipline, attention and individual needs. It also considers blended and adoptive families, children who require additional support and the importance of repairing relationships after disagreements.
Because raising siblings fairly does not mean giving every child the same childhood. It means helping every child feel equally valued within the family they share.
Disclaimer: This book provides general educational and parenting information and is not a substitute for individual psychological, medical or safeguarding advice. Families facing serious or persistent aggression should seek appropriate professional support. Any trademarks or third-party names mentioned remain the property of their respective owners; no affiliation or endorsement is implied.
Related Subjects
Parenting & RelationshipsCustomer Reviews
ThriftBooks ® and the ThriftBooks ® logo are registered trademarks of Thrift Books Global, LLC
