The Everything Parent's Guide to Raising Boys: A Complete Handbook to Develop Confidence, Promote Self-Esteem, and Improve Communication

by Cheryl L. Erwin

Defining manhood in today's society is hard-and it has made raising boys even harder. You're worried about his self-image, his values, his interaction with you and others at home and at school. You... This description may be from another edition of this product.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: 1593375875
• ISBN13: 9781593375874
• Release Date: June 2006
• Publisher: Everything
• Length: 287 Pages
• Weight: 0.95 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.8" x 6.1" x 9.1"

Customer Reviews

So many parenting books, so little time

I started with this book, and since it was helpful, I also bought the EPG to Positive Discipline, and next I'll get the EPG to the Strong-willed Child. (I have a strong-willed 3-year-old boy who is sometimes more like a bear cub than a boy!) I found that the books have some good insight into boys and what makes them tick, and some helpful, concrete ideas for "what to do!" From this book, I found most helpful a little exercize in which the author has the parent write in response to specific questions, what kind of an adult the parent wants the child to become; then she places the ball squarely in your court and asks, OK, now how are you going to guide him there??!! I also found it helpful to learn that REPEATED, kind instruction and positive feedback are essential for toddlers. Offering safe choices, when it is practical, to to help the child feel capable. If you want your son to be able read easily, boys generally like a different kind of book than girls. Lots of little things like that, that I can apply. Also, the philosophy of the book kind of sinks in and gives my parenting direction, even when it is giving more abstract information.

Raising Twin Sons

It was suggested that my husband and I read this book by our family counselor. My initial thoughts were, "Hey, every kid is different. What is a book going to tell me about my individual children," but as I read it, I found DOZENS of correlations between my two very different identical twin sons and the general findings in her research, which weren't very general at all, they were very detailed and right on. Reading this book has given me the much needed tools to sit back and ask - Are my kids misbehaving or are they acting their age? Based on that assessment, I can communicate disipline much more effectively, and I have been. Having the tools to understand our kids has decreased their frustrations with us as parents and increased our patience levels with them as toddlers. This was an easy read and very informative. I would highly recommend it to anyone with boys in their lives.

Halfway finished and learning from this book!

I am only half finished with this book and am already so intrigued by the author's philosophy, viewpoints and straight-forwardness, especially for those of us in the dark with strong-willed toddler boys. Looking forward to reading the remainder of the book, passing along what I have highlighted to share with friends and practicing her laws of kind discipline and awareness.