The Dichotomy of Being Nice: Why Saying "No" Breaks More Than Silence

By George Barnes

"If you are always available to others, you will eventually become unavailable to yourself." - A Boundary in Disguise
This book is not for the agreeable. It's for the exhausted.

The Dichotomy of Being Nice is the spiritual and emotional blueprint for anyone who's ever felt imprisoned by politeness, bound by their own kindness, or quietly collapsing under the weight of always saying "yes."

Written with prophetic rhythm and therapeutic depth, this book unpacks the raw truth of what happens when being the "nice one" becomes your silent surrender. George LeVance Barnes brings legacy-grade storytelling, divine revelation, and bloodline-breaking insight to every page.

Through 20 powerful chapters - from Yes vs No to Nice vs Named - you'll explore the contrast between light and likeability, truth and tolerance, compassion and compliance, peacekeeping and boundary-setting.

Each chapter is a mirror, a scalpel, and a spiritual map back to yourself.

Whether you've struggled with people-pleasing, codependent patterns, fear of rejection, or spiritual guilt wrapped in emotional obligation - this is your resurrection story in print.

You weren't created to be liked. You were called to be whole.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: B0FGPX6B8K
• ISBN13: 9798290789101
• Release Date: July 2025
• Publisher: Independently Published
• Length: 142 Pages
• Weight: 0.38 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.3" x 5.5" x 8.5"