Teach Them: A Mother's Guide to Raising Children Who Trust Themselves

By Stephanie Regalado

What if you could raise children who never have to recover their self-trust because they never learned to abandon it in the first place?

If you've learned to leave what doesn't serve you or are still working on trusting yourself to choose authentically, you understand the power of living from your truth. Now you can give your children something even more profound: the gift of never losing themselves in the first place.

Teach Them: A Mother's Guide to Raising Children Who Trust Themselves is your guide to upstream parenting-preventing the wounds before they form. Through partnership parenting rooted in attachment research, you'll raise children who trust their inner voice so completely they never learn to silence it for others' comfort.

What You'll Discover
Part I: The Foundation teaches you to create secure attachment that supports authentic living, honor your children's emotions as valuable information, and break the "good girl/good boy" trap that teaches compliance over authenticity.

Part II: Growing the Foundation shows you how to support your children's body autonomy and inner wisdom, help them when their authentic selves aren't welcome elsewhere, and build their decision-making confidence through age-appropriate autonomy.

Part III: The Adolescent Transition guides you through supporting healthy separation and individuation, modeling authentic adulthood through your own choices, and successfully launching adults who trust themselves completely.
Throughout, you'll discover how to heal your childhood patterns while modeling authentic living for your children.

About the Author
Stephanie Regalado is the visionary founder and publisher behind SheSays Media and author of "Leave Them: The Courageous Woman's Guide to Walking Away From What Diminishes Her" and "If They Only Knew: 60 Anonymous True Stories Showcasing the Power and Perseverance of Women."

Through her compelling work featured on national platforms including Blogher, Her View From Home, Love What Matters, and TODAY Parents, Stephanie creates permission slips for women to trust themselves and live authentically. Having navigated her journey from compromising herself to creating a life that honors her authentic self, she brings both personal experience and deep insight to raising children who never have to recover what was never lost.

Based on Research and Real Experience
Grounded in Kent Hoffman's Circle of Security research and Riane Eisler's partnership theory, Teach Them bridges attachment science and conscious parenting wisdom with practical, everyday applications. Whether you're still learning to trust yourself or have mastered choosing authentically, you can break generational cycles and raise children who become adults who can't be easily manipulated.

This book is for you if: You want to raise children who never have to spend years learning to trust themselves againYou're ready to parent from partnership rather than dominationYou want to heal your patterns while modeling authentic livingYou're committed to raising the generation that changes everything through their unshakeable self-trustThe Ripple Effect
Teach Them isn't just about individual families-it's about conscious evolution. When you raise children who trust themselves completely, you contribute to a generation that will transform society through authentic living, genuine relationships, and meaningful contributions to the world.

This is prevention. This is upstream healing. This is raising the generation that changes everything.
Your children's authentic selves are waiting. It's time to teach them they never have to abandon who they are to be loved.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: B0FM4HDJSW
• ISBN13: 9798293538119
• Release Date: August 2025
• Publisher: Independently published
• Length: 216 Pages
• Weight: 0.57 lbs.
• Dimensions: 8.5" x 0.5" x 5.5"