Surviving Separation and Divorce

by Loriann Hoff Oberlin

A woman's guide to enduring the psychological and practical effects of divorce and separation covers the range of legal, emotional, social, and spiritual issues facing women who are facing the end of... This description may be from another edition of this product.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: 1580623034
• ISBN13: 9781580623032
• Release Date: January 2000
• Publisher: Adams Media Corporation
• Length: 267 Pages
• Weight: 0.10 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.9" x 5.5" x 8.6"

Customer Reviews

friendly support!

You know, when you are alone suddenly and scared, not to mention disillusioned by all you thought you had that really wasn't, it's really comforting to read a book that puts you at ease. That's what I felt reading Ms. Oberlin's book. It was just the right balance of empathy, friendly support, and facts you need to know to make better decisions during this difficult time. The chapter on learning to laugh was very welcome too. I'd recommend for all women facing this and plan to buy one as a gift for a friend I know who is still struggling with a separation and pretty ugly divorce.

this book is a great support

This book is a great support to women, definitely no signs of being anti-male. From from a caring perspective, I appreciated the hope of reconciliation offered, and yet the firm advice on what life might look like ahead, carving out a new future for myself. Really enjoyed the lawn care humor and the chapter about lightening up during such a stressful time. In fact, I'm buying an extra copy for a friend whose marriage is in turmoil. It may help her make better decisions, too. Thanks much!

I felt better after reading this

Last week my husband came home and out of the blue announced he was leaving me. I was shocked, devistated, angry, hurt...you name it. Right away my friends and family were there to support me and help me realize that I'm better off without this man. I deserve someone better. I read this book in two days and I feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders. I'm in for a rough time ahead but I know that in the long run my life will be so much happier! I recomend this book to anyone facing the pain of separation or divorce.

Great survivor's guide for separated and divorced women!!!

Finally, an easy to read, practical guide written by a woman who has survived the tramatic experiences of separation and divorce. It's a great book for woman faced with the many challenges of living alone and raising children. The author writes from the heart, first-hand, what is important at this time, what steps should be taken, what others can do, what legal actions are necessary, and much more, to survive this painful journey. This book provides a pathway for women to take charge of their situation and to grow from their experiences.

This book has helped...

This book has helped ease the pain of a separation never planned for. A friend in her own troubled marriage agrees after reading several chapters too. Oberlin's style is easy to read, warm and friendly. While she doesn't say it's easy to start over, she's upbeat about the future for those facing a possible divorce or life as a single. And the sense of humor is great -- helps you lighten up when you really need to. Good tips on dating, taking care of yourself and what to look out for. If you're a woman facing separation or divorce, read this book or offer it to a friend who can use it.