Stop Spoiling That Man: Turn Your Needy Guy Into an Equal, Loving Partner

by John Boghosian Arden and Victoria Arden-Moyer

Book Overview

A psychologist with 30 years of counselling experience, Dr John B. Arden teams up with his wife Victoria to reveal what women can do to develop the skills to unspoil their men and encourage their men... This description may be from another edition of this product.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: 159869328X
• ISBN13: 9781598693287
• Release Date: December 2007
• Publisher: Adams Media Corporation
• Length: 256 Pages
• Weight: 0.70 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.7" x 5.9" x 8.5"

Customer Reviews

Love your man, don't spoil him

Every fulfilling and satisfying relationship requires a bit of give and take. However, if you are responsible for all of the giving and he is enjoying all of the taking, you're guilty of spoiling your man. Spoiling is not the same as nurturing or loving. Instead, it places his needs above your needs. The spoiled man is happy to let you make all of the decisions, do all of the work and bear the responsibility for maintaining all aspects of your relationship. This unhealthy imbalance will eventually leave you feeling unsettled, unsatisfied and unloved. If your mate has taken up permanent residence on the couch in front of the TV with a snack and a beer (that you gave him), getAbstract suggests that it's time you read this book. Here, you'll learn how to recognize the ways in which he manipulates and controls you. You'll also find strategies to launch an "unspoiling" campaign. Although some of the maneuvers recommended by husband and wife authors John B. Arden and Victoria Arden seem a bit devious, they might just be what your spouse needs to be a mature man, not a pouting prince.