Still Standing: Still Choosing: Life as a Sober Me

By: Coates, Ashley

What happens after survival?

Still Standing: Still Choosing is a quiet, honest continuation of a life rebuilt-not through dramatic turning points, but through daily choice.

After the chaos, after the loss, after the fight to stay sober, this memoir begins where most stories end: in the aftermath. Written from nearly three years of sobriety, Ashley Coates explores what it actually means to live once the crisis has passed-when the noise fades, the distractions disappear, and you're left face-to-face with yourself.

This book is not about how to get sober.

It's about what sobriety gives you-and what it still asks of you.

Through reflections on grief, friendship, identity, boundaries, rest, and presence, Ashley writes with clarity and restraint about building a life that no longer needs escape. She writes about learning who you are without chaos. About the difference between loneliness and peace. About confidence that doesn't rely on intensity. About protecting the life you fought to keep.

At the heart of this story is friendship-the kind that meets you in the wreckage and stays as you heal. The kind that doesn't require you to remain broken to remain close.

If Still Standing was about surviving what almost broke her, Still Standing: Still Choosing is about living with what remains.

A sober life.

A present life.

A life chosen daily-not perfectly, but honestly.

This book is for anyone learning how to stay.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: B0GNLPTHSH
• ISBN13: 9798247413424
• Release Date: February 2026
• Publisher: Independently Published
• Length: 86 Pages
• Weight: 0.28 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.2" x 6.0" x 9.0"